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1. February 9, 2019 at 10:25 am

   jack levin

   Your husband doesn’t deserve you. You’re walking around on crutches, wincing every time you take a step, and he’s waiting for you to tell him what to do? Send him packing back to mommy.

2. February 3, 2019 at 10:10 pm

   Darlene

   Thank you so much for sharing. It’s very hard for me to say I need something from anyone. I think some of that is due to asking and being ignored, and part from feeling the need to be independent. I need to be needed, but don’t want to need others so wouldn’t have thought of saying “I need…”
   I hope you continue to heal well. It’s not fun to be limited in what you can do for yourself. I know from multiple joint replacements. So glad you have someone who enjoys taking care of you.

   1. February 4, 2019 at 10:18 am

      Lisa

      Thank you Darlene for your kind words. Yes, I agree, it is hard for us to ask for what we need. It’s really worth trying those words with men. They do work and men do meet your needs then because you trigger the hero response in them. Let me know when you use them and how it works for you getting your needs met. Lots of hugs~

3. January 30, 2019 at 11:47 pm

   Barbara Wright

   Great insight! Heal quickly!!

   1. January 31, 2019 at 8:39 am

      Lisa

      Thank you Barbara. xoxoxo

4. January 30, 2019 at 9:51 pm

   Madeline

   That is very sweet, Lisa. Thank you for sharing that amount of vulnerability with us. I imagine it would be hard for me to train myself to ask in the new way. Was it hard for you?

   1. January 31, 2019 at 8:49 am

      Lisa

      Yes Madeline it was hard to think differently in the beginning and when I’m under stress, I can revert back to my old ways. But, I kept at it and was amazed at the magic that happened when I used the 4 and 5 magic words. Men couldn’t do enough to make me happy. Hope you’ll try those and let me know how they work for you. Hugs~

5. January 30, 2019 at 9:48 pm

   Jean Lehmann

   Wonderful article/post. I broke my tibia a few years ago. It was horrible feeling so helpless! I’m so happy you have a partner who is there for you. I wish you a speedy rexovery!

   You are so right about how to ask for things from a man in words that don’t remind him of his mother. I very much appreciate the “coding” or phrases, you recommend. Great advice! Thank you. Will look forward to using these tips when I find my Mr Right someday.

   1. January 31, 2019 at 8:52 am

      Lisa

      Thank you Jean for the good wishes. I so appreciate them!!!!! These words will make a huge difference in your life with all men. My clients have used them with men in the workplace, their sons, their brothers and their boyfriends. They truly are magical!!!!! Let me know how they work for you. Hugs~

6. January 30, 2019 at 9:06 pm

   Stephanie

   Thanks for the great story and most especially for the example!! Something I will try.

   So great to speak with you the other day.

   1. January 31, 2019 at 8:53 am

      Lisa

      Thanks Stephanie and it was wonderful talking to you as well! Look forward to talking again in March. Lots of hugs~

7. January 30, 2019 at 5:17 pm

   Ilene Miller

   So sorry to hear you’re on crutches…..what happened?
   Thanks for this….. great words of wisdom from you as always ❣️

   1. January 30, 2019 at 5:28 pm

      Lisa

      Hi Ilene. I was on crutches because I fractured the tibia in my right ankle. They say it’s part of the shin bone. Fortunately, I am now walking in an air cast. And thank you for letting me know that my blogs are so helpful to you. Love and hugs~

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