A Smart Woman’s Guide To The Right Man After 50

happy couple over 50Sometimes it feels like there’s no one out there to date.  Know what I mean?

Of course, you do.  Every woman feels this way at one time or another.

In today’s blog, I’m going to share the 11 types of men I found for you to date both online and offline.

I probably dated at least 6 of them on this list and the last one, #11 ended up being a keeper.

Now it’s your turn, which of these 11 types is the right one for you?

Type #1-The Bad Boy

He’s a favorite because he’s gorgeous, charming and knows how to make you feel amazing.

But he’s also a major player who will break your heart.

Fun to play with, but not good for long-term relationships.

Type #2-The Needy Man

While you’re in the emailing process, he’s already thinking of you as his girlfriend calling you honey or my girl.

He wants to talk on the phone or constantly text.  If you love a good project, he’s perfect for you.

Type #3-The Motorcycle Dude

Lots of good men ride motorcycles like doctors, lawyers, and well-paid businessmen.

Don’t knock him out just for having this midlife hobby.

As long as he doesn’t expect you to ride (unless you want to), he’s got potential.

Type #4-Beware of the Ring on His Finger

This man rarely posts a picture.

He doesn’t want his wife’s single friends telling her that he’s on a dating site.

You can really get hurt by this guy because no matter what he says about his marriage, he isn’t leaving his wife or he would have already.

Type #5-The Long Distance Romantic

If you love fantasy, this is the perfect romantic relationship.

You spend hours on the phone sharing your deepest secrets.

Problem is . . . the phone chemistry doesn’t always match up when you meet.

Yet, I have seen this type of relationship work if you live within a 2-hour drive of each other.

It’s a great match if you like weekend-only relationships.

Type #6-What He Really Needs Is A Shrink Not a Date

He’s looking for a therapist and you’re it.

Steer clear.

Unless you’re being paid money by the hour to listen to his woes, you’re better off finding a man who’s emotionally healthier.

Type #7-The Take Out Order Man

Some of the funniest profiles are written by men who think Online Dating is like going through the Wendy’s drive-through window.

They’re looking for specific qualities in women like body type, hair color, or a precise type of job.

In the long run, you’ll be a lot happier with a man who thinks you’re great exactly how you are!

Type #8-The Scammer

Scary group because they can scam you out of thousands of dollars by quickly capturing your heart.

These men have amazing pictures and they know you will feel blessed that such a handsome guy chose you.

If a guy continually makes excuses for not being able to meet you, chances are he’s a scammer.  Let him go!

Type #9-Younger Men Online Looking for Cougars

Shocking at times but yes, there are younger men out there who are into older women.

It’s a great boost for the ego.

Go for it if you want.

Just beware of men who are looking for a Sugar Mama to support them!

Type #10-The Older Man

These are ‘Old School Gentlemen’ who will treat you like a lady.

They can be a lot of fun.

Worth giving this one a chance.

Type #11-The “Quality Man”

He may not be the most handsome man online but he is the nicest and he will do anything for you.

He’s the man who’s interested in what you’re doing and wants to make you happy.

“Quality Men” who want nothing more than an opportunity to love you can be found online and in the real world.

Have fun with this one!

He can bring you a lifetime of happiness and joy.

Not sure if a man is right for you?

My friend and colleague, Carol Allen offers the coolest report called The Right Man Report that shows you how compatible the two of you are.

It gives you info on the relationships, strengths, and weakness and how you can deal with them.

I used it in my own life when I was dating to help weed out guys that were going nowhere.

Its accuracy saved me time and a lot of heartache!!!!!!

Take a look and see what you think by clicking here: The Right Man Report

Also, take a minute and let me know which of those men you’ve dated and how it worked out for you.

Believing in You!

Lisa

P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50

#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon



Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here

#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group

It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here

#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program

I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.

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6 Comments
  1. You are the best, I love the clarity and how asertive you are. Every women that is dating should read this!

  2. I go for the # 10 or 11 so long as they’re healthy, emotionally mature, and secure. Regrettably, there’s mostly 1 thru 9’s on line. Don’t mind long distance IF he doesn’t cheat as I’m super busy during the week anyway.

    • Emotionally and physically healthy and secure are good qualities to look for. Just make sure his values match yours. Its the secret key to finding the right man. Love and hugs~

  3. This is such a great article! I wish I had read this before wasting 3 years on a cross between #2 and #6! I’m taking some time to do work on myself before getting back out there but this guide will be invaluable! Thank you!

    • So glad this was helpful for you Victoria. Glad you’re taking some time to nurture you again. So important for getting clarity about what’s next for you. Keep me posted on how its going. Love and hugs~

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