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Step #1 Stop Making Excuses about the Reasons You’re Not Dating over 50!
Do you tell yourself and everyone around you that as a woman over 50, NOW just isn’t a good time in your life to date? If so, you’re likely to be alone for a long time. Just like you schedule important meetings for work, you want to schedule your dating life as well. Start by finding about 20-30 minutes a day to spend either online or in the real world meeting men.
Step #2 Decide Why You’re Dating!
Would you like a male friend you could take to an event or to a movie or dinner from time to time so you don’t have to go by yourself? Or do you desire a husband to share your life with? You need to know why you’re dating so you know what type of man and relationship you are looking for.
Step #3 Be Realistic About Men
Are you looking for the cutest and coolest guy out there to be your boyfriend just like you did in high school? We’ve all aged, so cute is probably not the same as it was back then. But, a man can turn cute in your eyes literally overnight as you bond with him. So give Average Joe a chance when you can. He is more likely to make a better boyfriend than Mr. Hottie will any day.
Step #4 Be Visible in the World So Men Can Find You
Do you stay at home every night with your cat watching TV? If so you aren’t going to meet a lot of men. Sadly, they don’t just fall out of the sky onto your doorstep-although it would be nice if they did. So get out there now and look for activities in your area or check out dating sites that involve the type of men you’d be interested in.
Step #5 Flirt and Have Fun!
It’s probably been a long time since you’ve flirted so it may take some practice on your part to do it well again. Start by smiling at every man you see. Most will smile back at you. Both online and during dates, be playful. Use the type of conversation and flirty behavior you’d use at a cocktail party.
Step #6 Commit to Going After Your Dream Man
Dating can get hard. When you find yourself rejected by a guy you really like or you feel you’ve seen every man there is to see online, you may want to quit. Don’t! Keep at it and do what it takes to find your Mr. Right.
Step #7 Get Dating Help and Support When You Need It
Women quit dating and miss out on meeting the man they are meant to be with because they just don’t have the skills and techniques to deal with the dating challenges that come up. When you think about it, we weren’t taught how to date back in our youth.
In fact, most of us just sort of fell into relationships and ended up marrying that high school or college sweetheart. Don’t be embarrassed about getting help if you are struggling in the dating arena. Look for dating programs or dating coaches and get the tools and skills that will make your dating journey so much easier for you.
On Thursday the “Dear Lisa” blog will be answering reader’s questions about 1st and 2nd dates along with answering the dilemma of who pays for dates. If you have questions you’d like answered, go now and submit them at: https://findaqualityman.com/contact/
Until then-
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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