3 Tips for Surviving The Over 50’s Dating Game

Tip #1 . . . He’s not who you think he is

How many times have you looked at a man’s profile and thought for sure he was the one?

Yet when you met, he was nothing like the guy you saw online or spoke with on the phone.

Here’s why this happens to most women over and over again.

Between the time you’ve seen his profile and the time you finally meet, chances are you’ve imagined what life with this new guy might be like.

What you’re doing is creating a story about who you think he is based on his profile and pictures, some emails or texts and a phone call or two.

And your story doesn’t match the guy who shows up.

This is why it’s so important to go on a date with the intention of meeting someone new and interesting.

No expectations. No stories.

If you do this, it will save you a lot of heartache and frustration!

Tip #2 . . . Coffee, Drinks or Dinner on a meet and greet

I’m often asked the question, “Should I do coffee or meet for dinner if its a meet and greet?”

Here’s my answer . . . Coffee or drinks gives you a fairly quick out if you need one.

If things are going well, you can always continue getting to know each other over dinner.

Sitting down for a long meal with someone you don’t know; while having to be at your best with someone you’ve never met; can be exhausting if the date’s not going well.

Both ways work. Just have exit strategies in place in case the date is heading south.

Tip #3 . . . Handling rejection

I know it feels like rejection when you don’t get a second date you really want.

What used to help me get over this need to be loved by everyone including men I really had no interest in was to remember this mantra . . .

He’s not personally rejecting you. You just don’t match the picture of who he thinks he wants in his life.

You’ve probably done the same thing.

Think of all the guys you’ve turned down because they didn’t fit your picture of Mr. Right.

As tempting as it is, promise me you won’t write, text or call him if the date doesn’t work out.

Move on to the next guy because your goal is to have someone who wants you in his life.

These are the types of issues that come up in over 50’s dating and they can drive you crazy when you have nowhere to turn for answers.

You don’t have to figure out over 50’s dating on your own anymore.

On May 14th, the Love after 50 Coaching Group is starting.

This group will be filled with amazing women just like you who have been successful in life but are struggling with love.

As a member of the Find Love After 50 Group, you’ll be getting all the tools you need to find the right man along with the support you want to make your dream come true.

Interested? If so, let’s set up a time to talk about how this may be the solution you’ve been looking for in your love life. Just click here to set up a time for us to chat.

Post Comment

Believing in You!

Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .

💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.

If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:

1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.

2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.

3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.

4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.

Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹

Love this article? Sign up by clicking here to receive my weekly blog.