3 Awesome Tips About How Men Think

Do you love men and being around them? If you do, I’m sure you’ve noticed how different a man’s energy is from the feminine energy of your girlfriends.

Yet it’s so common to assume men think and act like women…just with different bodies.

This way of thinking can create tremendous frustration for you when you’re trying to get your needs met in a relationship.

That’s why today I’d like to share these 3 awesome tips about men you can immediately put into action with all the men in your life.

Tip #1… Men Love Making You Happy

That’s a shocker, isn’t it? But men really do want to make you happy. The key lies in knowing how to ask them for their help so they’ll want to do anything for you.

The other key is not telling a man how to do what you’ve just asked of him.

If you want help from a man, graciously and appreciatively accept what he does for you even if it’s not exactly what you wanted.

A man will feel beaten down by you when he thinks nothing he ever does is right in your eyes. And that’s when he stops trying to please you and make you happy.

Tip #2… Men Can Only Focus On One Thing At A Time

Again here’s another area where we expect men to be like women but because of human history going back to the caveman days, we are totally different here too.

For men to hunt, they had to focus on their prey and how they were going to bring this prey home as food for their family. For example, if they started admiring the way natural plants beautifully draped the entrance of their cave, they’d become prey rather than hunting prey themselves.

It’s from their DNA that they can only focus on one thing at a time. Keep this in mind when you ask a man to do something, and then start piling other tasks on top of it. He literally can’t.

Tip #3… Men Don’t Want You To Bend Like A Pretzel For Them

So many women have told me how they lost themselves in a relationship trying to please the man in their life.

Why do you do this? Because you did everything to keep your “caveman” happy so he would keep you safe and protected. Isn’t it amazing how this engrained part of our DNA has continued to be part of your life thousands of years later?

However, men don’t expect you to bend to the breaking point for them or even want you to. They actually are attracted by women who have their own interests and the sexy inner glow those passions can spark in you.

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So if you think you’re ready to say YES to yourself and the dating life and Quality Men you want, just reply to this email and we’ll set up a time to talk.

Have a great week and let me know how these tips work for you!

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Ted

11:19 pm on August 28, 2013

Lisa,
I enjoy reading your blogs. I think some of your advise is very good. How can you write an article about how men think if you are not a man? You assume all men are the same, they aren’t. Many enlightened men think on both sides of their brains right and left, they are renaissance men. They,are not just hunters but gathers too or at least they can think like them.
I think it is great when you give suggestions to women that come from your own personal experiences but when you give them advise on how men think maybe it would be best not to generalize or to qualify your statements better.

Best of luck,

A Renaissance Man

Lisa
8:19 pm on August 29, 2013

Renaissance Man…I am glad you are enjoying my blogs. I am not a man but I have interviewed many men over the years who have filled me in on how they see life and how their brains work. In addition, I have done a great deal of research that has been scientifically verified as to how the brains of men and women work.

From what you are describing, it sounds like you have what is known as a “bridge brain” where both the left and right sides of the brain are attached. This is why you are able to have the characteristics of both a hunter and a gatherer. According to scientific research this is a rare phenomenon for men. So you are very fortunate to be able to experience this. Enjoy it. It’s truly a gift.

3 Great Tips About How Men Think

3 Awesome Tips About How Men Think

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