What I Learned About Love That Can HELP YOU Too!

 

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When I first started dating, I’d go crazy worrying about whether or not a man would like me.

I was forgetting how amazing I was . . . probably because in those days I wasn’t sure I was.

And even worse, I was giving my power away to someone I didn’t even know worrying about what he thought about me.

It’s so easy to do, especially when you read men’s profiles that say things like . . . “I want a professional woman who is petite and thin with blonde hair.”

After reading something like this, it’s so easy to critically start assessing yourself.

Maybe your body is curvy now because things have shifted, courtesy of menopause.

You know you have a great job but you’re not sure it’s what this guy would want and your hair is brown . . . but you could add blonde highlights if that’s what he’d like.

If you read enough profiles where men are describing specific types of women they’re looking for, you can end up feeling like you aren’t enough.

BTW . . . Reading women’s magazines can make you feel this way as well with all the unrealistic photoshopping that is done.

TODAY . . .  I’m here to tell you that YOU ARE ENOUGH!

You’ve just forgotten and I want you to be able to bring your greatness back to you.

Recently, I heard this short poem that touched my heart and I wanted to share it with you because it’s so easy to forget how AMAZING you really are . . .  AND YOU ARE AMAZING.

(And if this poem resonates with you, I hope you’ll pass it along to the women you treasure in your life to remind them how special they are too.)  

Who Are YOU?

You are . . . WOMAN

You are . . . Beautiful

You are . . . Powerful

You are . . . Sensitive

You are . . . Loving

You are a unique GEM

You are worthy of LOVE and AFFECTION

You are . . . never too much and you are always ENOUGH!

You are . . . AMAZING

Just the way you ARE

You are . . . the most stunning of all God’s creations

You are . . . worth more than you could ever imagine

You ARE . . . Worth more than the number on the scale, the size of your jeans, more than the price tags on your clothes or the shoes you wear.

YOU are . . . Worth more than the amount in your bank account, or the car you drive, or even the number of friends you have on social media.

Your WORTH surpasses ALL things on this planet and beyond Because in the eyes of your creator YOU ARE LOVED!

So today to all our sisters, mothers, aunts, daughters, grandmothers, grand-daughters, cousins and friends across the GLOBE . . .

Remember today and every day.

You are . . . perfect and whole exactly the way you are.

You are . . . WOMAN

You are . . . Beautiful

You are . . . Powerful

You are . . .Sensitive

And You are . . . LOVED!

Poem by Mary Morrisey and Jennifer Jimenez

A great exercise to do is to record this on your phone and listen to it every day.

It will help you continue to remember just how awesome you really are.

Have a wonderful week and be sure to look in the mirror and really appreciate the woman you see looking back at you.

Believing in you!

Believing in You!

Lisa

Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .

💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.

If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:

1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.

2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.

3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.

4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.

Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹

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