Dear Lisa,
I’m a mature dater on a large Internet Paid Dating Site and I’ve had it with the men on those sites! Even though men are winking and flirting, no one has actually written to me. What can I do to get a date with a Quality Man? Rochelle
Dear Rochelle,
Not getting emails from men you’re interested in is one of the most frustrating aspects of Paid Online Dating Sites. The problem with the larger sites is they appear to have thousands and thousands of members on them. Anyone can sign up to browse but only paid members have privileges to write you back.
But, you can get around this. Lots of Quality Men who have profiles and pictures on major paid dating sites also have profiles on free dating sites. Men on these sites contact women like the paparazzi love taking pictures of celebrities.
Your mailbox could fill with emails from men wanting a chance to get to know you better. You may need some online filters in place to figure out who the Quality Men are on there, but it’s worth looking at the free sites because everyone has the ability to write and respond to emails on them.
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Rochelle, how long has it been since you’ve updated your profile? Profiles get stale and if you’ve been on a site long enough, you know that reading the same ones over and over again with the same pictures and words that never change get pretty boring and stop being noticed.
It usually takes a couple of months at an online dating site and a lot of dates to find someone you’d like to pursue a relationship with. It’s a good idea to plan to be on dating sites for a while.
The secret to getting noticed again by men is to update your profile even if it means just changing one sentence. The site will read your profile as new and you start appearing at the top of the lists just as you did when you first signed up.
Rochelle, this is pretty cool when you think about it since new men come on dating sites all the time and guess who is going to always shows up first? YOU WILL if you’re consistently making small changes once or twice a week.
Older profiles fall to the bottom of the pack when you haven’t made changes since the day you signed up, making it so much harder for the new men to find you.
Rochelle, do you have a great profile going for you at an online dating site? Be sure you’ve posted a flattering picture of yourself. Close ups are best and men are attracted to your picture first so it needs to be a great one!
Next check your profile and be sure its fun, flirty and engaging to a man. Beware of too many sentences that begin with “I like this” or “I do that.” Your profile should always be descriptive and interesting so a man reading it wants to email you right away.
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Rochelle, from this point on, start thinking of online dating as a virtual cocktail party. Flirt, have fun-be short and sweet and always show your best side. Consider choosing sites that allow everyone to write to you.
Keep updating your profile all the time so the new man who joins the site sees your picture right away. With patience, consistency and persistence, you really can meet a lot of wonderful Quality Men online! I hope you’ll keep me posted on how this is working for you.
Not sure how to handle a particular dating situation? Click here https://findaqualityman.com/contact/ to ask the questions that are frustrating you about dating as a woman over 50. I’m sorry I can’t personally answer every question but I will try and answer as many as I can in future blogs and teleseminars. Be sure to watch for them!
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