Just recently one of my readers wrote and Asked Me what she could do to get past her fear of dating again as an over 50 single woman.
A friend was going to fix her up and despite knowing what a great opportunity this was, she found herself experiencing an intense fear and actually considered saying NO fearing this new man might not like her.
She’s certainly not alone.
As a dating coach I’ve often witnessed women over 50 stopping themselves from dating by allowing fear and self doubt to keep them from moving forward in their dating lives.
They are playing it safe and often, they’re not even aware of it. Here’s what I mean… Women SAY they are lonely and they want a man in their life, and, that they’d do anything to find him.
But when push comes to shove, it becomes a totally different story. For many women, when it’s time to date again, they’re uncertain of the steps they need to take to do the work that results in finding Quality Men to date.
In many ways, it just feels easier to go out with friends or stay home every Saturday night and complain that “No Good Men Are Really Out There Anyway.” Sound familiar at all?
Yet it’s that inner self- doubt and fear that keep so many women from getting out in the Real Dating World.
It’s Time to Take a No-Excuses Approach to Dating
Some women call them “reasons” but in reality they are excuses and they stop you from getting what you want. When you finally have an opportunity to date a “Quality Men”, do you make excuses not to do it? Some of the biggest are “I don’t have time now”, “I’m too busy”, “I’m travelling to see my grandchildren” and the list goes on.
These excuses are an escape route from putting yourself out there and risking rejection from a man. Yet to find that companion you are looking for you have to be willing to get out there and meet all kinds of men. Some will like you, some won’t but unless you try dating lots of them, you’ll never know.
Women who have Quality Men in their lives have not allowed fear to hold them back. While dating, they had the mindset that a date was only an opportunity to meet a new friend. That’s it! If it worked, great, if it didn’t, they just moved on and tried again with someone else until they found the man they desired to bring into their life.
How badly do you want a man in your life again? You can either have excuses that keep you lonely or you can have results with possibly a lot of new male friends you met along the way or even better, a great Quality Man as a companion in your life. Which do you choose?
Dating again can be so scary-it takes you out of your comfort zone especially when you’re not sure what the Dating Rules are after 50.
Isn’t it time you stop making excuses that keep you from dating and getting the companion you really want in your life?
I’ve created a program that will give you the Exact 10 Steps you need for attracting a Quality Man in your life that actually work! It’s called the “Quality Man Attraction Home Study System.”
What results can you get using this program?
- Quality Men who want to date YOU after reading your online profile. You’ll even get a list of the 10 most motivating tips to fine-tune your profile right away.
- All you have to do is tweak this one thing that increases your appeal factor to a Quality Man. (I attracted more Quality men by doing this and you can too!)
- Say good-bye to online dating if you want cause you’ll know precisely where your Ideal Quality Man can be found in your local area within miles of where you live.
- Using this method to a “T”, you’ll get second dates far more often then your friends do.
- End he feast or famine experience of dating men once and for all! This one dating tip will have you dating Quality Men all the time with very little effort on your part.
In this program, I have included my proven methods along with lots of little known over 50 dating secrets. As well, the lessons I learned from the many, many, failures and the many, many, successes with Quality Men that followed. I’m giving it all to you in this Home Study System you can do at your own pace.
It’s time you stop making excuses about dating and start moving forward to finding your Quality Man ASAP. Why don’t you take a moment now to check this unique and complete home study program out…
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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I found this blog to be very good, and full of information. I have a close personal friend of mine that has a lot of self doubt, and she`s not sure if she should be dating anymore. So I am going to tell her about your blog and maybe that will fix her fears! Thank you for the great information. This should work out perfectly!