My Top 4 Tips for Finding Love with a Good Man after 50!
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Tip #1 Focus on what you want in your love life
When I ask a woman what she wants to see happen in her love life, the answer I often hear is everything she doesn’t want.
The problem with this answer is what we focus on is what shows up.
So if you’re focusing on the qualities in a man you don’t want, guess who is going to show up?
You got it…the men you don’t want.
You want to be clear on exactly what in a man will make you happy if you want to attract him into your life this year.
Tip #2 Create a Dating Blueprint to find the right man for you
Most women rely on only one way to meet men and that’s usually online dating.
When you hit a dry spell, dating becomes really frustrating.
This is why I share with my group coaching clients they need at least 2 plans in place for finding Mr. Right.
Below are 4 options to chose from when you’re creating your Dating Blueprint.
Make sure you’re using at least 2 at all times to create opportunities for meeting the right man.
- Online Dating (The most number of men are here but you need to have amazing pictures and a great profile to attract them)
- Meeting Men in Real Life (You get to see a man’s face along with his personality which gives you a better picture of who he really is.)
- A Matchmaker (Most women bomb with matchmakers because they don’t have a clear vision of who they want in their life. It’s why every single one of my clients creates a Quality Man Template that works like magic for attracting the right men to them.)
- Dating Fairy Godmothers (These are your friends who can fix you up. You just have to remind them on a consistent basis to keep you in mind should they meet someone interesting for you)
Tip #3 Don’t let rejection set you back
When I first started dating, I would go home and cry if a man didn’t ask me out again.
And because I had no clue what I was doing to attract, meet and keep a good man, that would happen a lot!
My ego was taking a constant hit and there were times I just wanted to quit because my feelings were hurt.
Because I took not getting second dates so personally, I came up with a mantra that helped me when a guy I liked didn’t ask me out again.
Here it is: A man is not rejecting you. It’s just you don’t fit the picture of who he thinks he wants. (This is also why we reject men…they don’t fit the picture of who we want)
Ok, I have to admit, I had to use it even with the men I didn’t like. As women we just want everyone to like us. Know what I mean?
Try using this mantra. It will really help you get past not getting second dates when it happens.
Tip #4 Stop right now…making excuses for not dating
I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve heard women say they are too busy to date.
What they are really saying is I filled my life up with everything but dating because . . .
- I’m afraid to date or
- I’m afraid of rejection or
- I’m afraid I’ll never find the right guy so why should I even try?
When we really want something in our lives, and we feel we can get it, we go after it.
We don’t let fear stop us.
Fear of dating comes from not knowing what your next step is.
I see it happen over and over again with women I work with.
Once they have the tools and support they need, the fear magically disappears and they feel they can now go after their dreams.
They do and good guys start coming into their lives.
So grateful to have found my guy
Lisa…had another amazing evening with Jim Saturday. It was our 7th date! So enjoying our time together. And so grateful to you for showing me how to find love with such a wonderful man. None of this would have been possible without your coaching and your insights. Thank you so much! Leigh, Ohio
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Let’s make 2021 the year you find love with a good man!
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Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
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If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
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Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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1 – Show some energy and enthusiasm; ‘I would be fun to live with!’
2 – Be better informed/read. Knowing the latest on the Kardashians doesn’t count (only shallow people care). Where is the Ponte Vecchio? Why is the filibuster a big deal?
3 – Be more interesting.
4 – Show/indicate that you are really interested in a relationship, and not just ‘kicking tires.
5 – Try to maintain eye contact when having a conversation; if you don’t want to be here, cancel ahead of time and find a hobby.
6 – You were way more fun 20 years ago. Prove me wrong.
Sorry Lisa, not much to sell here. But homework!