How You Can Meet Interesting, Fun Men After 50
Do you take dating super seriously?
Do you go online looking for the perfect man and find yourself totally frustrated because no one seems to fit the “ideal” of who you want in your life?
In fact, do you find the faces staring at you on your computer screen… Seem to look more like your daddy and the granddaddy you remember versus the men you want to be dating?
It’s depressing, isn’t it?
White haired, pot bellied men who ride motorcycles.
Here’s a little tip for you…some of those motorcycle dudes can be great catches.
As crazy as motorcycles may seem to you, there are lots of professionals out there who are in love with this midlife hobby.
Ok, so what to do about this shortage of good guys online?
When you dated in your 20’s…
You were looking for a man to build a life filled with new careers, the car, the house, the kids, the dog…
As you aged, along would come the weddings of your children, the grandkids and a shared retirement lifestyle together.
Yet, today if you’re reading this…
It’s likely you are single and even though these life cycles still occur, you’re doing them on your own versus with a partner.
And you feel like there is this emptiness inside of you.
A piece missing.
A hole in your heart that you desperately want to fill with the love of a man.
I get it.
So you go out there and you start looking for handsome men to date.
And you can’t seem to find them when your cruising the online dating sites…
And if you do find one who wants to date you, you are so excited and you end up going on that date with energy that is saying, “Please, please, please…. pick me.”
And he can feel this energy.
It comes across as desperate and needy and doesn’t feel good.
Haven’t you felt it when a man you weren’t too keen on intensely wanted you?
Okay, so how do you shift this?
With this one little trick called Dating To Date.
You’re going on a date to have fun and to meet someone new and interesting.
Someone who could end up as your lover, your friend or who could turn into a long term relationship with you.
It’s your choice.
Dating To Date allows you to get to know a man.
You see, no one shows up on a first date as himself or herself.
Yet, you probably qualify and disqualify a lot of men based on this fake person you’re meeting.
Instead of getting his resume on the first date, just enjoy his company.
If he’s nice, give him a second chance with you.
Men must feel attracted to you from the start to date you again.
But for you as a women, men who are kind of okay when you meet can grow on you.
In fact, he can become Mr. Handsome and Mr. Wonderful over time as you get to know each other.
Even though it may not always feel true, you actually have lots of dating options at this age…the best being you can just enjoy the company of men.
You don’t have to marry them.
But you can have fun getting to know them and that’s really what it’s all about don’t you think.
Let me know how Dating to Date goes for you in the comments.
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
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Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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I think we go into on line with waaay too many expectations and we emotionally invest way too soon. Mr. Handsome, fit, smart, and Perfect is not gonna be on line, he has tons of options in real life. That’s where you gotta go. Now that races are in town, I make it a point to spend lots of time downtown approaching fit older men. Corresponded with a lot of guys on line this summer; many were time wasters, two were dishonest about their appearance and a few were downright creepy. Have been seeing one guy on and off for 3 months now, taking it very slow. My car just expired and he went to the effort to drive the 100 miles (one way) to see me. That’s the kind of behavior I look for.