Do You Know How To Find Mr. Right After 50?
Before I started on my dating journey back in 2002, I had this vivid dream where my “Dating Fairy Godmother” waved her wand and brought my true LOVE right to me.
Just dropped him right on my doorstep. Oh how I wish!
Unfortunately finding men just doesn’t work this way… especially at our age… although I admit, it sure would be nice, don’t you think?
As young adults in our teens and early twenties, we were exposed daily to single men all the time… at school, camp, after school activities, and at Churches or Temple’s.
Today as grown ups, we don’t really have these types of common meeting places.
Now, it’s up to us as women over 50 to find the men we want to date and as you’ve probably figured out…. it’s a lot harder than it was back then.
Dating takes some work especially if you want to successfully find a great guy to bring into your life.
The good thing is… men are out there looking for someone just like you. You just have to find a way to discover each other and these 3 Tips can help you do just that.
Tip #1-Be courageous and put yourself out in the world on a daily basis
If you stay home all the time with your cat, dog, bird or even grandchild, you just aren’t putting yourself in the position to meet new men.
Try taking classes or consider participating in activities that really pique your interest and make you feel happy.
When you’re happy, you glow and guess what? That glow is the magical beam that will pull a man right to you.
Tip #2-Continue dating even when it’s hard and you feel like quitting
The only way to really know the type of man you ultimately want is by dating lots of them.
Yes, I know it means a calendar filled with meeting good and not so good men for coffee or tea… but it’s the only way to determine if “he” might be the one you’d like to have a relationship with.
Sometimes it requires kissing a lot of frogs to get to the right one. Or you can view it as one man closer to the one you want in your life.
When you’re frustrated, take some time off from dating to refuel your inner glow.
Get the support you need from friends, or a dating coach like me who can give you tools for dealing with the dating challenges you are facing as a woman over 50.
Consider scheduling a Complimentary Find Your Soul Mate Discovery Session with me to get an understanding of what’s holding you back from finding the love of your life.
Tip #3-You Need to Have a Dating Strategy in place to be successful
What is your goal for dating? Is it having a man around for occasional companionship or for the rest of your life?
Once you’ve figured this out then work backwards so you can figure out the steps needed for accomplishing this goal.
This means figuring out strategies for where you’re going to meet men in your area, what online dating sites you are going to get yourself on, how much time you are going to spend on dating everyday and so much more.
With these 3 Dating Tip’s in place, you should start seeing positive changes happening fairly quickly in your dating life!
Let me know how they end up working for you.
Until next time~
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
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If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
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3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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I am 65 and I have been told that I have to get my finances in order for me to find a quality man. I have had two previous marriages, now i am widowed. I have to support myself and work a full time job. I have settled before and have picked men who I had to take care of. My great Indian friend told me that I need to look and have higher self-esteem. What would be your advice. I have picked the poor type. How can i change?
Hi Gerry
I do believe we attract men who mirror the issues we need to heal in our own lives. It sounds like this might be what is happening for you. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to do anything and everything that makes you happy in life. This creates an inner glow within you that men will be so attracted to and even more important doing things for you will make you feel good about you. Happy Holiday’s!
Hi…
I am a 50 year old woman who is looking for love once again. I was married for 18 years and he passed way two years ago…sad, yes.
I am ready to begin anew, finding another love of my life. I still feel saddened but I am ready to move along. Where can I meet quality men? I have been on dating sites galore. The men I find are more confused, more in debt, and just want one thing. I am looking for the total package…the last love of my life to be with. Please help.