I broke up with the first because he was bad , but i want my second ex-boyfriend back the good one , the British one.
September 16, 2012 at 11:47 am
Lisa
I hear you Sarah. But if your 2nd boyfriend dumped you, that might be the reason you still want him back. Something gets triggered… making us want a man who does this to us even more. Try and remember that whatever broke you up in the first place is still there.
I can remember painting a picture in my mind of who an ex was. Yet, months later, when I ran into him somewhere, it reminded me of who he really was-not who I imagined him to be all the months I thought I wanted him again…and that’s when I was finally able to move on.
If its been a while, see if you can meet up with him so you can get a “Reality Check” of whether your feelings are for the reality of him or the person you’ve been imagining him to be. Keep me posted on how this go.
September 16, 2012 at 12:21 am
Sarah Kesler
Yes i have my first ex-boyfriend and he still won’t leave me alone , he was bad.
Still trying to get my second ex-boyfriend back the good one , the British one. <3
Lisa, your comments are just perfect. I call the men you describe, Relationship Rats. And you have accurately warned against their behaviors which don’t lead to finding a Forever Love. I’m so hoping your readers listen to your wise words, you are doing ladies everywhere such a favor!
September 10, 2012 at 12:18 pm
Lisa
Thank you Marcia. Looking forward to your pearls of wisdom coming out later this month! Can’t wait!
September 16, 2012 at 12:23 am
Sarah Kesler
I broke up with the first because he was bad , but i want my second ex-boyfriend back the good one , the British one.
September 16, 2012 at 11:47 am
Lisa
I hear you Sarah. But if your 2nd boyfriend dumped you, that might be the reason you still want him back. Something gets triggered… making us want a man who does this to us even more. Try and remember that whatever broke you up in the first place is still there.
I can remember painting a picture in my mind of who an ex was. Yet, months later, when I ran into him somewhere, it reminded me of who he really was-not who I imagined him to be all the months I thought I wanted him again…and that’s when I was finally able to move on.
If its been a while, see if you can meet up with him so you can get a “Reality Check” of whether your feelings are for the reality of him or the person you’ve been imagining him to be. Keep me posted on how this go.
September 16, 2012 at 12:21 am
Sarah Kesler
Yes i have my first ex-boyfriend and he still won’t leave me alone , he was bad.
Still trying to get my second ex-boyfriend back the good one , the British one. <3
September 10, 2012 at 9:07 am
Marcia Reece
Lisa, your comments are just perfect. I call the men you describe, Relationship Rats. And you have accurately warned against their behaviors which don’t lead to finding a Forever Love. I’m so hoping your readers listen to your wise words, you are doing ladies everywhere such a favor!
September 10, 2012 at 12:18 pm
Lisa
Thank you Marcia. Looking forward to your pearls of wisdom coming out later this month! Can’t wait!