5 IMPORTANT Steps for Finding Love after 50 with the Right Man

I’m a bit of a cell phone junkie meaning the second I open my eyes in the morning, I turn on my phone and start looking at my email.

And last Monday was no exception.

I checked Facebook then moved onto my email where I saw this subject line pop up

. . . Lisa, I’m getting married.

The email was from Dee, a woman who’d been in my Love after 50 Coaching Group last year.

I’m so excited about her news that I have to share it with you (with Dee’s permission of course!)

Hey Lisa . . . Do you remember when we first spoke? I told you how I was always attracting the wrong types of men who never wanted to commit to a relationship. You encouraged me to join your Love after 50 Group and I’m glad I did because guess what? I met a man at a Meet-up group using the skills you taught me about understanding men and flirting. He’s so caring, shares my values and has the biggest loving heart. And most importantly, he fits everything on my Quality Man Template. Lisa, I’ve met the love of my life and we are getting married!!!! I could never have done this so easily without your support. Thank you so much for helping me change my life!!!! Dee, Florida

Let me tell you that was an amazing way to start my day!!!!

And it was the inspiration for today’s blog.

Dee and so many of my clients have found the love of their lives using these 5 steps I’m about to share with you.

Take a look at them to see if they’re in your dating toolbox.

Step #1 . . . Knowing Your Value

Know what really turns a man on?

Your confidence.

Yep, hard to believe, right?

But it’s true.

You need to know that you are the prize, which means really feeling into your own value and letting a man prove he’s worthy of you.

Step #2 . . . Understanding Men

During the era of Sex and the City, a couple of my friends and I were sitting around drinking cosmopolitans while talking about men.

I remember saying to them, I think we’re having a hard time finding the right man because we’re actually looking for a woman in a man’s body.

Little did I know how true that was and its one of the biggest reasons we as women end up emasculating men.

We just don’t get the way they think because no one ever brought this to our attention.

As a woman, you are community oriented.

Men, on the other hand, are hero oriented meaning their DNA coding is to keep you safe, protected and provided for.

Understanding how to trigger that hero response with the 4 magic words, I need your help or the 5 magic words, Could you do me a favor triggers a man to step up and be there for you.

It’s changed the lives of my clients and helped them find love with really good men.

Step #3 . . . Getting A Clear Vision of Your Mr. Right

This is such an important step in the process of finding love that so many women skip because they think when “he” shows up, they’ll just know he’s the one.

Hate to burst your bubble, but it’s not true.

What you will know, is you have instant attraction and chemistry but that’s about it.

My clients have found by creating and using a tool called “A Quality Man Template” they get a clear vision of what type of man will make them happy today not what made them happy in their 20’s.

Step #4 . . . Navigating the Online Dating Scene

Online dating is one of the easiest ways to meet a lot of men but it is fraught with perils.

Peril #1 and probably the scariest . . . Scammers are on every dating site but with the right profile and pictures, you can often avoid contact with them.

Peril #2 . . . The right men not contacting you. Some of this has to do with paid dating sites having a lot of non-paying browsers and not enough men who paid that can write to you.

Peril #3 . . . Men disappearing. Online Dating is like being in a candy store where you have lots of choices to chose from. The secret here is just to go into this with the mindset of meeting someone new and interesting versus thinking he may be the one.

Step #5 . . . Meeting Men in Your Local Area

There is a huge advantage to meeting men in real life versus online.

Online dating is what I call one-dimensional.

You see a picture and make a snap decision about someone based on how they look.

In real life, you get to experience a man’s personality, which can make him a lot cuter to you than just a picture would.

Meet-ups are a great place to meet men and find girlfriends to hang with as well.

And talk to men wherever you are.

This is how Dee, my group coaching client who is getting married met the love of her life and I know this can happen for you too!

Wanted to let you know . . . I’ve just opened up space for exactly three new group coaching clients. If you have friends or colleagues (or maybe even you!) who wants to find love after 50 with a good man … please hit reply with the word YES and I’ll send you more details!

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