3 Tips for Surviving The Over 50’s Dating Game

Tip #1 . . . He’s not who you think he is

How many times have you looked at a man’s profile and thought for sure he was the one?

Yet when you met, he was nothing like the guy you saw online or spoke with on the phone.

Here’s why this happens to most women over and over again.

Between the time you’ve seen his profile and the time you finally meet, chances are you’ve imagined what life with this new guy might be like.

What you’re doing is creating a story about who you think he is based on his profile and pictures, some emails or texts and a phone call or two.

And your story doesn’t match the guy who shows up.

This is why it’s so important to go on a date with the intention of meeting someone new and interesting.

No expectations. No stories.

If you do this, it will save you a lot of heartache and frustration!

Tip #2 . . . Coffee, Drinks or Dinner on a meet and greet

I’m often asked the question, “Should I do coffee or meet for dinner if its a meet and greet?”

Here’s my answer . . . Coffee or drinks gives you a fairly quick out if you need one.

If things are going well, you can always continue getting to know each other over dinner.

Sitting down for a long meal with someone you don’t know; while having to be at your best with someone you’ve never met; can be exhausting if the date’s not going well.

Both ways work. Just have exit strategies in place in case the date is heading south.

Tip #3 . . . Handling rejection

I know it feels like rejection when you don’t get a second date you really want.

What used to help me get over this need to be loved by everyone including men I really had no interest in was to remember this mantra . . .

He’s not personally rejecting you. You just don’t match the picture of who he thinks he wants in his life.

You’ve probably done the same thing.

Think of all the guys you’ve turned down because they didn’t fit your picture of Mr. Right.

As tempting as it is, promise me you won’t write, text or call him if the date doesn’t work out.

Move on to the next guy because your goal is to have someone who wants you in his life.

These are the types of issues that come up in over 50’s dating and they can drive you crazy when you have nowhere to turn for answers.

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