Which of These 3 Male Personality Types Are You Most Attracted To?
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Most of us grew up watching fairytales like Cinderella and Snow White when we were little.
And because of these childhood fairytales and in today’s world, Hallmark movies which are adult fairytales, it’s easy to dream about the man in your life looking a bit like the men portrayed in these stories.
For some women, it’s Prince Charming, a man who comes in, sweeps her off her feet and treats her like a princess.
For others, it’s the guy you don’t particularly care for when you meet but as time goes on, you discover you share amazing chemistry, you kiss and become a couple.
There are lots of versions of this dream but the real question is . . . are these fairytale men the types of men out there you can date?
Over the years, I’ve found between real-life experience and research that women are usually attracted to men with one of these 3 Personality Types.
The first one is what I call “The Affluent Man.”
Women love this type of man because he can provide quite well financially in a relationship.
He can wine and dine you at the finest restaurants or take you on the best vacations because his idea of love is money that can give you anything your heart desires.
In theory, that sounds pretty good, right?
The thing is, this man has a Type A personality and is often very driven and focused on his work.
His number one priority is his business and not necessarily his mate once she’s his.
This type of man can be a lot of fun.
And the money can be exciting for what it can give you.
The con of the Affluent Man is you can feel lonely when he’s unable to be there for you emotionally because his Mistress, “work”, has his attention.
The next personality type is the Type B Man.
He’s the type of man who would personally do anything for you.
He truly wants to protect and take care of you himself.
And, he will do whatever it takes to make that happen whether it’s personally helping you with something or suggesting you hire someone to do it if he can’t take care of it.
A Type B Man is financially self-sufficient.
That doesn’t mean you’ll feast on fine dining every night but he can hold his own on dates and sometimes you’ll pick up the check or split the bill with him.
He lives a more balanced life, has enough money to be comfortable, according to his standards and he makes the time to be present for who and what he loves most in his life, whether it’s in business, a relationship or time with his kids.
He’s the one who’ll be there to wipe your tears when you’re sad and share your joys when you’re happy.
His idea of love is doing everything in his power to make you happy.
Our Type A Man is often too busy making money to pay attention to your everyday emotional well-being and mostly leaves it to you to take care of yourself, although he’ll happily pay for a therapist to get you through a crisis.
Then you have the Type C Man.
He comes out of his marriage financially and emotionally devastated or he’s lost his job, but he is still out there dating.
There are a lot of men like this who appear to be great men but who have acute financial or emotional issues.
Women love this Project Man because they can fix him up to be what they’ve always been looking for in their life.
And in the beginning a Type C man likes someone helping him get his life back on track.
Over time, he tires of being someone’s project and starts to feel smothered and controlled and often leaves the relationship breaking your heart as he moves on.
You’ve fixed him up and he’s now a pretty good catch for someone else.
So which of the 3 personality types do you usually date or would like to date?
Do you want the Type A “Affluent Man” who can take you on a 5 star vacation but may not be there emotionally when you need him?
Are you open to the Type B who can wine and dine you on a smaller scale yet is so there for you on an emotional level?
Or do you love a fixer-upper who will keep you busy with his emotional and financial difficulties?
A quick note I hope inspires you to know finding love after 50 is possible for you too . . .
Thanks to Lisa and her Love After 50 program. The insights and experience Lisa shared led me to find a great guy. The Quality Man Template helped me focus on what I was looking for. It may have taken a little while, and admit I got frustrated at times, but I took breaks to focus on me and then jumped right back into the program. I am glad I waited and stuck with the program until I found my quality guy. We have been dating exclusively for several months now and sharing a lot of love, laughter and fun. I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time. Thank you! Ellen, Virginia
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