Hi Noquay
The key for you is knowing how to turn off the manly switch before you interact with men. You can convey a lot in your profile, its knowing how to write one that attracts the right men to you. If you’d like some help, consider going to the coaching page then sign up for a Complimentary Find Your Soul Mate Session. It will help you get answers to a lot of your concerns.
It’s ok to be a farmer and a cool feminine chick. It’s just knowing how to make it happen for you. Thanks for posting.
Lisa
April 29, 2013 at 8:10 pm
noquay
i am a very alpha female, I live in a small mountain town where self sufficiency is necessary if a woman is to live on her own. I do my own tree planting, built my chicken coops, fix my house solo as there are no other reliable options. I get a lot of crap for being “too manly” but if I dont do the work myself, it isnt going to get done. i routinely dress like a girl (actually kicka$$ older babe), carry myself well, with dignity, but it is frustrating because the dating pool is so limited that being feminine here is only going to get you “problems”. In a few weeks time, I was hit up by a two marrieds and two deadbeats. I threw them back. I really have no choice but to date on line but it is difficult to realistically convey who you are (athlete, organic farmer, environmentalist, professor) but still get across that one is a caring. affectionate (with the right person) too. I realize I never will be a June Cleaver (nor do I want to be) but I would really like to find an older, educated, healthy man with whom to spend the rest of my life.
April 30, 2013 at 11:55 am
Lisa
Hi Noquay
The key for you is knowing how to turn off the manly switch before you interact with men. You can convey a lot in your profile, its knowing how to write one that attracts the right men to you. If you’d like some help, consider going to the coaching page then sign up for a Complimentary Find Your Soul Mate Session. It will help you get answers to a lot of your concerns.
It’s ok to be a farmer and a cool feminine chick. It’s just knowing how to make it happen for you. Thanks for posting.
Lisa
April 29, 2013 at 8:10 pm
noquay
i am a very alpha female, I live in a small mountain town where self sufficiency is necessary if a woman is to live on her own. I do my own tree planting, built my chicken coops, fix my house solo as there are no other reliable options. I get a lot of crap for being “too manly” but if I dont do the work myself, it isnt going to get done. i routinely dress like a girl (actually kicka$$ older babe), carry myself well, with dignity, but it is frustrating because the dating pool is so limited that being feminine here is only going to get you “problems”. In a few weeks time, I was hit up by a two marrieds and two deadbeats. I threw them back. I really have no choice but to date on line but it is difficult to realistically convey who you are (athlete, organic farmer, environmentalist, professor) but still get across that one is a caring. affectionate (with the right person) too. I realize I never will be a June Cleaver (nor do I want to be) but I would really like to find an older, educated, healthy man with whom to spend the rest of my life.