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If I could hand you a crystal ball that would show you your future love life….what would that picture look like for you?
Take a moment and really think about that… then while its still in your mind, write the picture you saw down on paper.
We have a tendency to focus on what we don’t want based on our past relationships.
So that means, what we focus on in our love life is what we will attract to us…and that’s why it’s so important to recognize and acknowledge what you want in a man and the relationship you want with him.
You want to be committed daily to looking for your dream guy that you’ve seen in the crystal ball.
Get yourself online and write a dynamite profile that you post along with an updated flattering picture of you or get yourself into local places that are frequented by men over 50.
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Stop right now…making excuses for not dating and get yourself out into the dating world ASAP! It’s the only way your going to find the guy you really want in your life.
Be sure to make your friends “Dating Fairy Godmothers” for you. Remind them on a regular basis that you are single and would appreciate fix ups with any single men over 50 they may encounter.
Be aware of any beliefs about men that may be holding you back from meeting the perfect man for you.
It’s important to know the difference between what Hollywood movies and television teach you about men and the reality of who is out there.
Be really careful of being perfectionistic about men. We all have flaws and if we knock them out for the wrong haircut or clothes…. and by the way, these are fixable….you end up missing a great guy who just needs some style advice.
It’s ok to have a list of deal breakers that don’t work for you. I am allergic to smoke so smokers were a deal breaker for me. Figure out your deal breakers and only take men off your list who possess these deal breaker qualities.
Try dating men who are different then your usual type. The man I’m with is totally different from my usual type…. and in the beginning, I’ll admit it was hard because I felt uncomfortable dating someone who was totally out of my comfort zone.
But, it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had. There’s a reason your old relationships haven’t worked…and chances are its from patterns of dating the same type of man with the same issues over and over again.
Break the old mold and try something different! You could end up with a great guy and fantastic relationship like I have.
Are you doing the Shiny Penny Dating Syndrome thinking there is always someone better out there for you?
If you are…stop it now! Give men a chance…that means 3 or 4 dates if he’s nice. There are often really good men out there that we pass up…because we start thinking the next guy out there might be better whether he’s more handsome, has a better job, or drives a better car.
You miss great guys right in front of you when you have this syndrome.
Know that some men will like you and some won’t. Learn to let it slide off of you as being one man closer to finding the ONE you are looking for. Most women end up kissing a few frogs along the way before they meet their Mr. Right.
It helps to view every date as a learning experience and a chance to meet someone new and interesting.
Be courageous and go after your dating dreams…even when it’s hard and you want to quit! Don’t give up! Click on the button below and set up a Complimentary Consultation if you are feeling this way. We can get this turned around for you.
I’m going to end this with a quote from Henry Ford…that is perfect for dating and finding the man you want to be with.
“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t-your right!”
Until next time….
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
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If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
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Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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