Turning Around Dating Ruts as a Woman over 50

Are there times in your life where you get so frustrated with being a woman over 50 and dating?  You get so tired of trying to find your Mr. Right…..

Those are the moments when you feel like there is just no one out there to date anymore-every good guy has been taken.  You think at this point you’d just settle if someone half -way decent would show up in your life.

Many women get in a dating rut by being really picky about who they will date.  They are usually looking for their idea of the Perfect Man, one who has certain characteristics like lots of money and/or good looks.

At the same time, they often pass up men who aren’t the most handsome or wealthiest, yet have a lot of great qualities like kindness or a willingness to do anything to make you happy.  Quality Men come in different packages so think about keeping your eyes and mind open to dating different types of men.  You might find a real treasure if you do!

Often when we are in a dating rut, we find ourselves so lonely.  We’d like to date but it feels like too much work for what we get back in return.

Dating is like finding a job. It requires a lot of patience and time each day working the dating system.  That means you need to spend 20-30 minutes a day at Online Dating Sites looking for men you might be interested in.  Or you can get yourself out into the world and find activities and places where men you’d like to date might be.

Just keep at it.  You wouldn’t quit looking for work if you needed a job.  You’d keep going until you found one.  The same goes for dating.  As hard as it feels at times- don’t stop looking for a “Quality Man” until you’ve found one to bring into your life.  You may have to kiss a few frogs along the way but the one you’re looking for is out there waiting for you.  You just have to keep working the Dating System until you find him.

 It’s so easy to get into a rut if you are only looking for a mate.  When you do this, no one ever appears good enough so you might pass over a potentially great man and end up not dating at all.

Dating after 50 can be a lot of fun if we Date to Date and not Date to Mate.  You can meet a lot of great guys this way, to go to movies with or just out to dinner.  He doesn’t have to be mating material-he’s can just be a companion to have a good time with.

You know how movies can be a sleeper one day and a block- buster hit the next?  This can happen with men too.

As you get to know one of your Date to Date Men, you might find out that he’s a keeper-something you’d never have known if you were only Dating to Mate.   So think about dating all kinds of men just for the fun of it and watch your dating life turn around from no dates to as many dates as you’d like with great men who may not be mate material but are a lot of fun!

Having a strategy in place is key to getting out of a dating rut.  We all need dating support especially during the times when dating feels so hard to do. 

Gold Key Coaching to Finding Love after 50 would be perfect for helping you get out of your dating rut.  Working together, you no longer have to be lonely and you no longer have to figure out dating by yourself.

You’ll come out of this coaching program with the confidence and the tools you want to have fun dating!

Check it out at: https://findaqualityman.com/coaching/gold-key-to-dating-success/ and start turning your dating life around NOW.

Until next time-

Believing in You!

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#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon



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#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program

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