My Top 4 Tips for Finding Love with a Good Man in 2018!
Tip #1 Focus on what you want in your love life this year.
When I ask women what they want to happen in their love life, the answer I often hear is everything they don’t want.
The problem with this is what we focus on is what shows up.
So if you’re focusing on the qualities in a man you don’t want, guess who is going to show up?
You got it…the men you don’t want.
You want to be clear on exactly what in a man will make you happy if you want to attract him into your life this year.
Tip #2 Create a Dating Blueprint to find the right man for you in 2018!
Most women rely on only one way to meet men.
This becomes frustrating and is the #1 reason I tell my private and group coaching clients they need at least 2 plans for finding Mr. Right.
Below are 4 options to chose from when you’re creating your Dating Blueprint.
Make sure you’re using at least 2 at all times to create opportunities for meeting the right man.
- Online Dating (The most men are here but you need to have amazing pictures and a great profile to attract them)
- Meeting Men in Real Life (You get to see a mans face along with his personality which gives you a better picture of who he really is.)
- A Matchmaker (Most women bomb with matchmakers because they don’t have a clear vision of who they want in their life. It’s why every single one of my clients creates a Quality Man Template that works like magic for attracting the right men to them.)
- Dating Fairy Godmothers (These are your friends who can fix you up. You just have to remind them on a consistent basis to keep you in mind should they meet someone interesting for you)
Tip #3 Don’t let rejection set you back
When I first started dating, I would come home and cry if a man didn’t ask me out again.
And because I had no clue what I was doing, that was happening a lot!
My ego was taking a constant hit and there were times I just wanted to quit because my feelings were hurt.
Because I took not getting second dates so personally, I came up with a mantra that helped me when a guy I liked didn’t ask me out again.
Here it is: A man is not rejecting you. Its just you don’t fit the picture of who he thinks he wants. (This is also why we reject men…they don’t fit the picture of who we want)
Ok, I have to admit, I had to use it even with the men I didn’t like. As women we just want everyone to like us. Know what I mean?
Try using this mantra. It will really help you get past not getting second dates when it happens.
Tip #4 Stop right now…making excuses for not dating
I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve heard women say they are too busy to date.
What they are really telling me is I got busy because I’m afraid to date or I’m afraid of rejection or I’m afraid I’ll never find the right guy so why should I even try?
When we really want something in our lives, and we feel we can get it, we go after it.
We don’t let fear stop us.
Fear of dating comes from not knowing what your next step is.
I see it happen over and over again with women I work with.
Once they have the tools and support they need, the fear magically disappears and they feel they can now go after their dreams.
They do! And good guys start coming into their lives.
Step up your Inner and Outer Dating Game so you can find love in 2018! In my NEW GROUP COACHING PROGRAM starting in February you’ll get the right tools to find love after 50 along with the support to inspire and motivate you. And top it off with a membership in a community of women traveling the same journey as you.
Want to find out more?
Hop on over to this link: Talk to Lisa and tell me a little about yourself and what’s been happening in your dating life.
I’ll send you a link to my calendar so we can talk.
Let’s make 2018 the year you find love with a good man!
Believing in You!
P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50
#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon
Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here
#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group
It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here
#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program
I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.
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Yes, #4 here really speaks to me. I’ve been making excuses for not dating because I’ve been so terrified after a bad second marriage. I’ve flirted a lot, and have gone out on “faux dates” with three guys in their 50s (I’m in my 70s, which they knew….)since my 2014 divorce. Well, you know what? It’s INEVITABLE that I’ll meet Mr. Right…I think, it’s going to happen this year. I’ve already decided on the ring I want, at my favorite local jeweler….Linda Jay
Trying to find a man who is, sweet romantic, thoughtful and giving,treat me like a princess, is that to much to adk for?