This first date blunder can keep you from finding Mr. Right

Here’s something interesting I bet you haven’t thought about when it comes to dating after 50.

As a single woman in the second half of life, you get to choose how YOU want a man to fit into your life.

This is very different from the way you dated when you were in your 20’s and 30’s.

Back then, you looked for men to mate and have children with.

Today as a single woman over 50, you can date just for fun and men can fit into your life as your friend, your lover, your boyfriend, or even as your husband.

Yet if you’re like most women, dating isn’t fun.

You feel like the clock is ticking.

You start thinking you aren’t getting any younger.

And you worry about whether or not men will even like you at this age. (men do!)

So you go on a date and start frantically quizzing the new man you’re meeting.

You’re desperately trying to figure out whether he’s the one before you’ve finished a cup of coffee instead of enjoying the journey of attracting, meeting, and getting to know a new man.

I call this way of high-pressure dating . . . Dating to Mate.

I’d like to suggest another way to experience dating that is far more fun and gives you more opportunities to enjoy your experiences with men. It’s called. . . Dating to Date.

Here’s how it works.

Imagine three curtains in front of you.

Curtain #3 is the Relationship Curtain where the man and the relationship you want reside.

Unfortunately, this is the place where most women start out on a meet and greet.

Jumping right into the relationship curtain creates frustration because it’s hard to figure out whether or not someone is perfect for you in 15 minutes.

A better place to start is in Curtain #1, the Exploration Curtain.

This is where you go on dates with the intention of deciding how a man might fit into your life and into your future.

Your energy is relaxed and low-key as you get to know someone new and interesting. (Just be sure to keep a notebook about each one so you don’t get them all mixed up)

This is an empowering way to enjoy your over 50’s dating journey.

Curtain #2 is the Exclusive Curtain.

You’ve found someone you really like and the two of you decide to make your relationship exclusive.

You hang out, have fun and enjoy each other’s company as you get to know one and another.

If the relationship isn’t working in Curtain #2, you go back to Curtain #1 and you start the process again of going on dates getting to know someone new and interesting.

If Curtain #2 does work, you head to Curtain #3 where you’ll figure out the type of committed relationship you both want.

Can you see how dating in Curtain #3, the Relationship Curtain on a 1st date is a HUGE SET UP FOR FAILURE at finding the right man for you?

So many of my clients have told me this progression of dating has changed their lives and made dating far more fun and easier.

I know it can for you too. Give it a try and let me know how it works for you.

BTW . . . Our next Love after 50 Coaching Group is on March 15th.

This group is filled with highly motivated women who have been successful in life but are struggling with love.

They are getting all the tools they need to find the right man along with the support to make their dream come true.

Interested in how this group can help you find love? If so, let’s set up a time to talk about how this may be the solution you’ve been looking for in your love life. Just click here and take about 2 minutes to share what’s been happening in your love life. If I think I can help you get on track for finding your guy, I’ll send you a link to my calendar to set up a time for us to chat.

Here’s how the Love after 50 Group changed my client Mindy’s love life . . .

With Lisa’s guidance and coaching, I was able to learn what had been holding me back from finding the right man for me. I am now in a 6-month relationship with a wonderful man who is different than any man I have ever dated in my life, and different than any of the men I have dated since my divorce. He checks all of my boxes on my Quality Man Template!!!

This program is about so much more than dating! It is like therapy and coaching all rolled into one! It is the information we were never taught as young women and needed so desperately. I really can’t say enough! An amazing investment in yourself! I’m excited to see my love live play out!

Believing in you!

Believing in You!

P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50

#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon  

Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here

#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group

It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here

#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program

I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.

If you are interested in learning more about how I can help, you can Click here to answer a few quick questions and schedule a call.

#4: Subscribe to my YouTube Channel

Click here to explore my YouTube channel for valuable tips on dating and relationships after 50! Discover insights that will empower you to attract the right partner with confidence.

This first date blunder can keep you from finding Mr. Right

This first date blunder can keep you from finding Mr. Right

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