I have been listening to Lisa on Sixty & Me. I am 64, a financial advisor who specializes in working with divorcing women(this is a male dominated field). I walk daily, and ride horse several times a week. I have been divorced over 22 years and have not been in a relationship in a long time.
I initially found this concept a challenge but am have been willing to try this “just to see” and she is right. Men are not nearly as complex as women! Being a northerner who has lived in the south for over 35 years, I can tell you that I probably turned off a lot of southern men. Although, I relate better to northern men, remembering to “appreciate” their thoughts and actions goes a long way. Saying “thank you” and smiling when they open the door, or saying, “What a good choice” when they pick a restaurant really makes a difference.
I have not yet found someone that is a fit but I will remember to incorporate these simple acts of appreciation as I move forward.
June 2, 2022 at 6:13 pm
Lisa
Debbie…thank you for letting me know this resonated with you. I’m so glad you are going to start using it. xoxoxo Lisa
June 2, 2022 at 12:32 pm
Debbie
I have been listening to Lisa on Sixty & Me. I am 64, a financial advisor who specializes in working with divorcing women(this is a male dominated field). I walk daily, and ride horse several times a week. I have been divorced over 22 years and have not been in a relationship in a long time.
I initially found this concept a challenge but am have been willing to try this “just to see” and she is right. Men are not nearly as complex as women! Being a northerner who has lived in the south for over 35 years, I can tell you that I probably turned off a lot of southern men. Although, I relate better to northern men, remembering to “appreciate” their thoughts and actions goes a long way. Saying “thank you” and smiling when they open the door, or saying, “What a good choice” when they pick a restaurant really makes a difference.
I have not yet found someone that is a fit but I will remember to incorporate these simple acts of appreciation as I move forward.
June 2, 2022 at 6:13 pm
Lisa
Debbie…thank you for letting me know this resonated with you. I’m so glad you are going to start using it. xoxoxo Lisa