We are now exclusive and it HAPPENED in A Pandemic!

Hi Ladies, I want to tell you the most important concept I learned working with Lisa that changed my life and how I see my relationship with a man. I can’t believe I never really understood this before.

I have always liked and dated men who were what I thought were my type; tall, lean, strong, masculine and authoritative as I thought that was a sign of strength. Lisa kept suggesting I date all different types of men which I had resisted as I thought I knew what I wanted.

I was dating a guy (T) kind of my old type but nicer then past men but decided to give what Lisa said a chance. I met a man (M) on Match.com who is not much taller than myself (I’m 5’5″) and he is 5’8. Anyway, we started to date and he was very nice but I did not feel the butterflies I thought I should be feeling, so after about a month of dating I called him one afternoon and told him that I want to feel those butterflies and I did not with him. He was disappointed but very nice and said he wished I felt differently but very nice and accepting.

I continued to date (T) but after about a week, I realized that I missed the way (M) treated me and realized I had made a mistake. So I called (M) back and told him I really missed seeing him and that it was too early for me to feel butterflies and that’s what only happens in a Hallmark movie. He was amazing and said he would love to see me again and was very happy.

I dated both men for a little while longer and then decided to tell (T) I just wanted to be friends. (He was my old type). (M) really listens to what I have to say and remembers everything I’ve said. My old type didn’t really listen or maybe just didn’t care.

This guy treats me so well, he plans the best dates, totally gives of himself and tries to make me happy and treats me like a queen. He takes me out to dinner to explore amazing food, makes picnics for me with all of the food and beautiful surroundings, and caters to me. We se each other 3 times  week. My old type would only get together once a week.

I have never had anyone show this kind of attention to me before. I am so loving it and really caring more and more for him. We are now exclusive. This all happened in a Pandemic! Thanks to what the amazing dating strategies and support you’ve given me Lisa.

P.S. I am now with my honey a bit over 6 months and he just took me to a jewelry store and had me pick out a ring for Valentine’s day! Not an engagement ring but a diamond ring to show I am “taken”. Engagement later! Not quite ready yet. Thanks Lisa Copeland.  Couldn’t have done it without you and the group. He makes me so happy.