I’d have MISSED my guy if I’d used this quality to decide if he’s the one

Lisa, If I hadn’t memorized your advice to wait a few dates and NOT look for an immediate spark, (he’s 5’9” to my 6”, bald, overweight- as am I), I would not have had the opportunity to be walked to my car, asked politely to be kissed (the man has seriously good skills), and the fun and excitement of making out like teenagers for a few dates.

Thanks to what I learned from you, I have found the love of my life. He calls me his Nordic Goddess. I feel so cherished and feel so lucky we found each other. Oh, and he’s been so there for me as I’ve gone through a rough knee replacement. He rose to the occasion, impressing me and my kids. They are now all team Mark! Just can’t thank you enough for all your support.

We are now exclusive and it HAPPENED in A Pandemic!

Hi Ladies, I want to tell you the most important concept I learned working with Lisa that changed my life and how I see my relationship with a man. I can’t believe I never really understood this before.

I have always liked and dated men who were what I thought were my type; tall, lean, strong, masculine and authoritative as I thought that was a sign of strength. Lisa kept suggesting I date all different types of men which I had resisted as I thought I knew what I wanted.

I was dating a guy (T) kind of my old type but nicer then past men but decided to give what Lisa said a chance. I met a man (M) on Match.com who is not much taller than myself (I’m 5’5″) and he is 5’8. Anyway, we started to date and he was very nice but I did not feel the butterflies I thought I should be feeling, so after about a month of dating I called him one afternoon and told him that I want to feel those butterflies and I did not with him. He was disappointed but very nice and said he wished I felt differently but very nice and accepting.

I continued to date (T) but after about a week, I realized that I missed the way (M) treated me and realized I had made a mistake. So I called (M) back and told him I really missed seeing him and that it was too early for me to feel butterflies and that’s what only happens in a Hallmark movie. He was amazing and said he would love to see me again and was very happy.

I dated both men for a little while longer and then decided to tell (T) I just wanted to be friends. (He was my old type). (M) really listens to what I have to say and remembers everything I’ve said. My old type didn’t really listen or maybe just didn’t care.

This guy treats me so well, he plans the best dates, totally gives of himself and tries to make me happy and treats me like a queen. He takes me out to dinner to explore amazing food, makes picnics for me with all of the food and beautiful surroundings, and caters to me. We se each other 3 times  week. My old type would only get together once a week.

I have never had anyone show this kind of attention to me before. I am so loving it and really caring more and more for him. We are now exclusive. This all happened in a Pandemic! Thanks to what the amazing dating strategies and support you’ve given me Lisa.

P.S. I am now with my honey a bit over 6 months and he just took me to a jewelry store and had me pick out a ring for Valentine’s day! Not an engagement ring but a diamond ring to show I am “taken”. Engagement later! Not quite ready yet. Thanks Lisa Copeland.  Couldn’t have done it without you and the group. He makes me so happy.

So VERY HAPPY – I Found My Guy!

I am thrilled to say I found him, or we found each other and it is going great! I have to say, he is nothing like the guys I was in relationships with in the past. That Pattern Chart exercise was so helpful and pointed out some poor repeated behavior choices that I set out to change or avoid this time around. That along with learning how to rephrase things in MAN language and remembering I can be a flirty girl made a huge difference in dating. I learned so much and put it into practice and it worked! I couldn’t be happier! Thanks for all the support Lisa! Got to go now and get ready to go see my guy!!! So, very happy!!!

My Guy Is Amazing! Wouldn’t have seen him before working with You!!!!!

Lisa, I wanted to share with you just how happy I am. What a difference a year makes. Thanks to you and your amazing coaching program, Jim and I met on Bumble at the height of the COVID pandemic. We have now been together for almost 2 years.

I am so grateful! Our relationship has grown and evolved without any of the major obstacles or chaotic drama of my prior relationships. Jim and I returned from our first week-long vacation only a few weeks ago. I can honestly say that I am happier now than I’ve ever been in my life.

There are so many reasons I credit you and your coaching program as the only way I was able to find relationship happiness. But there are two key lessons that really made all the difference for me.

First, your emphasis on creating a positive attitude and having fun has been such an important lesson for me. Looking back, I placed unreasonably high expectations on all my first dates and I wasn’t open to simply meeting new male friends and having wonderful experiences with them.

The second and most powerful lesson for me was creating and constantly following my Quality Man Template (QMT). I continue to use it today and I always will. My emotional guidance system paragraph contains affirmations which I love to reread frequently. Additionally, the personal list of values and qualities which are the foundation to my QMT have become guiding principles in all aspects of my life.

When I first met Jim, I quickly discovered that the reason I felt so comfortable and at ease with him was because we shared the same values and qualities.

I truly can’t thank you enough, Lisa! You are a phenomenal relationship dream-maker. Always, always be grateful to you.