My 5 Best Tips For Finding Love After 50
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Tip #1. Creating a good romantic Love Story
Who doesn’t love a good love story?
A handsome man sweeps you off your feet, gives you an amazing life and the two of you live happily ever after in total bliss.
Wonderful story. Yet, although these types of stories make you feel good, they aren’t a reality for attracting the right man and creating a long-term relationship.
When you use Hollywood movies as the standard for how to find love, what you’re doing is setting yourself up for total frustration and failure.
These romances filled with handsome heroes can keep you from seeing a good man who might be “only average” in the looks department.
Yet Average Joe could be the real hero of your Love Story.
He’s the man who is there for you at the end of the day with a glass of wine, has your back when things are great and not so great, and loves you just the way you are.
It’s worth giving him a chance.
Tip #2. Be super clear on the type of man and relationship you want
I know this sounds obvious but I ask women daily what they are looking for and they often tell me they aren’t sure.
Create a clear vision of who your man is filled with the values you want to share, the deal breakers that are non-negotiable, the patterns of men you’re always attracted to that don’t work, the qualities you want, and how you want to feel around him when you’re together.
Put it all in writing. When you do this, it’s like a shout-out to the Universe that this is who you want.
Tip #3. Create a Dating Blueprint for how you’re going to meet the right man for you
I’m a huge believer in this over 50’s dating tool that all my clients use because it gives you more ways to meet men over 50.
Most women only use Online Dating.
And many of my clients have been successful at finding love with good men online but many women find themselves totally frustrated by the online process.
That’s why you want to be using at least 2 avenues for meeting men at all times whether it’s . . .
- Online Dating
- Meeting Men in Real Life or
- Dating Fairy Godmothers who fix you up
Tip #4. Realize the limiting beliefs you may be telling yourself about men
Some of the most common limiting beliefs I hear are . . .
- All the men online look too old, like my grandpa or father.
- There are no good men to date after 50. They’re all taken.
- Men my age, aren’t as active as I am.
Do any of these sound familiar?
If so, these limiting beliefs can block you from seeing good men who might be right for you.
This means you’re missing opportunities to meet your Mr. Right unless you become aware of these limiting beliefs and use tools to heal them.
Tip #5. Set an intention for a first date of finding out something interesting about this new man you’re meeting
On a first date, you want to ask fun questions like the ones below that give you good information about a man without grilling him . . .
- What’s on your bucket list? (This gives you a sneak peek into who they are and what makes them tick)
- What do you enjoy about what you do for a living? (Far more interesting way to say “What do you do?”)
- What’s your ideal vacation? (Great one for checking out compatibility)
Have fun on a first date using questions like the ones I just shared.
Make up some of your own.
You’ll find your dates are far more fun and interesting because questions like these help you share past history of the times you grew up in and they bring out people’s personalities.
Now a little inspiration to remind you that you can find love after 50!
Hey Lisa . . . As a member of your Love After 50 Coaching Group, I learned so much about dating and finding love after 50. You gave me a lot of tools to work with – many I didn’t even know about until working with you. Every call was filled with great content and so much good advice and coaching. You’re an excellent coach and I can’t thank you enough for the great training you gave me for finding the right man after 50. Pat, California
If you’re struggling with dating and attracting your Mr. Right, I’m here to help.
Just click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been going on in your love life.
Then, I’ll send you the details on how we can set up a time to talk about how to get your love life back on track for finding your Mr. Right.
Believing in you!
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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