My 5 Best Tips For Finding Love After 50
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Tip #1. Creating a good romantic Love Story
Who doesn’t love a good love story?
A handsome man sweeps you off your feet, gives you an amazing life and the two of you live happily ever after in total bliss.
Wonderful story. Yet, although these types of stories make you feel good, they aren’t a reality for attracting the right man and creating a long-term relationship.
When you use Hollywood movies as the standard for how to find love, what you’re doing is setting yourself up for total frustration and failure.
These romances filled with handsome heroes can keep you from seeing a good man who might be “only average” in the looks department.
Yet Average Joe could be the real hero of your Love Story.
He’s the man who is there for you at the end of the day with a glass of wine, has your back when things are great and not so great, and loves you just the way you are.
It’s worth giving him a chance.
Tip #2. Be super clear on the type of man and relationship you want
I know this sounds obvious but I ask women daily what they are looking for and they often tell me they aren’t sure.
Create a clear vision of who your man is filled with the values you want to share, the deal breakers that are non-negotiable, the patterns of men you’re always attracted to that don’t work, the qualities you want, and how you want to feel around him when you’re together.
Put it all in writing. When you do this, it’s like a shout-out to the Universe that this is who you want.
Tip #3. Create a Dating Blueprint for how you’re going to meet the right man for you
I’m a huge believer in this over 50’s dating tool that all my clients use because it gives you more ways to meet men over 50.
Most women only use Online Dating.
And many of my clients have been successful at finding love with good men online but many women find themselves totally frustrated by the online process.
That’s why you want to be using at least 2 avenues for meeting men at all times whether it’s . . .
- Online Dating
- Meeting Men in Real Life or
- Dating Fairy Godmothers who fix you up
Tip #4. Realize the limiting beliefs you may be telling yourself about men
Some of the most common limiting beliefs I hear are . . .
- All the men online look too old, like my grandpa or father.
- There are no good men to date after 50. They’re all taken.
- Men my age, aren’t as active as I am.
Do any of these sound familiar?
If so, these limiting beliefs can block you from seeing good men who might be right for you.
This means you’re missing opportunities to meet your Mr. Right unless you become aware of these limiting beliefs and use tools to heal them.
Tip #5. Set an intention for a first date of finding out something interesting about this new man you’re meeting
On a first date, you want to ask fun questions like the ones below that give you good information about a man without grilling him . . .
- What’s on your bucket list? (This gives you a sneak peek into who they are and what makes them tick)
- What do you enjoy about what you do for a living? (Far more interesting way to say “What do you do?”)
- What’s your ideal vacation? (Great one for checking out compatibility)
Have fun on a first date using questions like the ones I just shared.
Make up some of your own.
You’ll find your dates are far more fun and interesting because questions like these help you share past history of the times you grew up in and they bring out people’s personalities.
Now a little inspiration to remind you that you can find love after 50!
Hey Lisa . . . As a member of your Love After 50 Coaching Group, I learned so much about dating and finding love after 50. You gave me a lot of tools to work with – many I didn’t even know about until working with you. Every call was filled with great content and so much good advice and coaching. You’re an excellent coach and I can’t thank you enough for the great training you gave me for finding the right man after 50. Pat, California
If you’re struggling with dating and attracting your Mr. Right, I’m here to help.
Just click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been going on in your love life.
Then, I’ll send you the details on how we can set up a time to talk about how to get your love life back on track for finding your Mr. Right.
Believing in you!
Believing in You!
P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50
#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon
Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here
#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group
It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here
#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program
I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.
If you are interested in learning more about how I can help, you can Click here to answer a few quick questions and schedule a call.
#4: Subscribe to my YouTube Channel
Click here to explore my YouTube channel for valuable tips on dating and relationships after 50! Discover insights that will empower you to attract the right partner with confidence.
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