My 5 Best Tips For Finding Love After 50

Tip #1. Everyone loves a good romantic Love Story.

They fill your heart as you dream a handsome Prince Charming coming in to sweep you off your feet so the two of you can live happily ever after in total bliss.

These types of stories make you momentarily feel good but they aren’t reality.

And when you use these Hollywood movies to base how falling in love should look, well what you’re doing is setting yourself for total frustration and failure at finding Mr. Right.

These fairy tale romances filled with handsome hero’s keep you from seeing a good man who might be “only average” in the looks department.

Yet, he could be the real hero who is there for you at the end of the day with a glass of wine, has your back when things are great and not so great, and loves you just the way you are.

This is who your real Prince Charming looks like!

Tip #2. Be super clear on the type of man and relationship you want.

I know this sounds obvious but I ask women daily what they are looking for and they often tell me they aren’t sure.

Create a clear vision of who your man is filled with the values you want to share, deal breakers that are non-negotiable, patterns of men you’re always attracted to that don’t work, qualities you want, and how you want to feel around him.

Put it all in writing. When you do, its like a shout out to the Universe that this is what you want.

Tip #3. Create a Dating Blueprint for how you’re going to meet the right man for you.

I’m a huge believer in this over 50’s dating tool that all my clients use because it gives you more ways to meet men over 50.

Most women only use Online Dating.

Many have been successful at finding love with good men online but most find themselves totally frustrated by the online process.

It’s why you want at least 2 avenues for meeting men at all times.

BTW . . . just got this email from a client who felt the tools she’s discovered in my group program are great training for finding Mr. Right.

Hey Lisa…As a member of your Love after 50 Coaching Group, I learned so much about dating and finding love after 50. You gave me a lot of tools to work with – many I didn’t even know about until working with you. Every call was filled with great content and so much good advice and coaching. You’re an excellent coach and I can’t thank you enough for the great training you gave me for finding the right man after 50. Pat, California

If you’re struggling with finding love after 50, I’m here to help. Just click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been going on in your love life. Then, I’ll send you the details on how we can set up a time to talk about how to get your love life back on track for finding your Mr. Right.

Tip #4. Realize the limiting beliefs you may be telling yourself about who men are.

Some of the most common I hear are . . .

All the men online look too old, like my grandpa or father.
There are no good men to date after 50. They’re all taken.
Men my age, aren’t as active as I am.

Any of these sound familiar?

If so, they are blocking you from seeing good men who might be right for you.

That’ means you’re missing opportunities to meet your Mr. Right unless you become aware of these limiting beliefs and use tools to heal them.

Tip #5. Use the first date to find out something interesting about this new man you’re meeting.

You want to ask fun questions like the ones below that give you good information about a man without grilling him . . .

What’s on your bucket list? (This gives you a sneak peek into who they are and what makes them tick)
What do you love about what you do for a living? (Far more interesting way to say “What do you do?”)
What’s your ideal vacation? (Great one for checking out compatibility)

Have fun on a first date using questions like the ones I just shared.

As you get to know him better, you’ll come across as an interesting woman, he’d like to get to know.

Oh and if you missed the 5 Secrets to Stop Pushing Men Away FB Live Training . . . you can click here to catch it on my FB Biz page. You don’t have to be a member to watch it there.

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P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50

#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon  

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#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group

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#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program

I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.

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