Couple of things – at least for women in their late 60’s/early 70’s–
– you need to be more interesting; most of the women I’ve met recently are dull, really dull. And you exhibit little to no energy.
– and you need to be better read (books, newspapers and the like) and know something about what is going on in the world, depressing as some of it is.
– and don’t be so afraid of everything; for example, wandering around Paris is fun and the French people are very nice – at least to me. SCUBA diving (for example) is also fun —-
– as you probably know by now, dating websites are mostly bullshit – having lots of profiles is meaningless as few of them are actual members. Waste your money if you wish, but don’t expect much.
Spending 30 minutes for coffee with some of you is exhausting; could not imagine crawling into bed with you and holding you close, for the rest of my life!
Why would men want to spend time with you – any time? Ask yourself that question.
June 23, 2021 at 5:21 pm
Lisa
Vito…Your comments are interesting because I often hear the same thing about men from women. Men are couch potatoes, can’t hold a decent conversation, not sexually attracted, etc. From years of doing this work, I’ve found both men and women try and choose a partner based on things that don’t ultimately matter for the long haul of a relationship. Everyone’s looks are going to fade as is chemistry. It’s just not sustainable. What does count are the values the two of you share and how you feel around each other. Make sense?
June 17, 2021 at 4:58 pm
Vito Provolone
Couple of things – at least for women in their late 60’s/early 70’s–
– you need to be more interesting; most of the women I’ve met recently are dull, really dull. And you exhibit little to no energy.
– and you need to be better read (books, newspapers and the like) and know something about what is going on in the world, depressing as some of it is.
– and don’t be so afraid of everything; for example, wandering around Paris is fun and the French people are very nice – at least to me. SCUBA diving (for example) is also fun —-
– as you probably know by now, dating websites are mostly bullshit – having lots of profiles is meaningless as few of them are actual members. Waste your money if you wish, but don’t expect much.
Spending 30 minutes for coffee with some of you is exhausting; could not imagine crawling into bed with you and holding you close, for the rest of my life!
Why would men want to spend time with you – any time? Ask yourself that question.
June 23, 2021 at 5:21 pm
Lisa
Vito…Your comments are interesting because I often hear the same thing about men from women. Men are couch potatoes, can’t hold a decent conversation, not sexually attracted, etc. From years of doing this work, I’ve found both men and women try and choose a partner based on things that don’t ultimately matter for the long haul of a relationship. Everyone’s looks are going to fade as is chemistry. It’s just not sustainable. What does count are the values the two of you share and how you feel around each other. Make sense?