Is He Right For You? Here’s How To Know For Sure
When it comes to choosing men, especially online, are you looking for men who are “your type”?
Do you wink at them or favor them, hoping they will notice you and write you back? Are you so disappointed if they don’t?
Who does contact you? Is it the men you don’t want?
Who really is that Quality Man you desire?
Is he a good looking profile picture? Or is he a total package, a sum of everything he has to offer to your relationship?
Have you ever thought about questions like these when considering a man to date? (This is a smart strategy anytime, but especially when you’re in a dating rut, where it feels like you’re dating the same guy over and over again in different clothes.)
- Will he bring you soup when you’re sick?
- Will he stop at the store and get you what you need, even if it is a bit out of the way?
- Will he bring you flowers and say, “I love you,” even when it’s not your birthday?
- Will he rearrange his schedule to drive you to the airport so you don’t have to hoist that suitcase out of your car or worry about parking before your trip?
- When you’ve had a hard day, will he rub your back or bring you a glass of wine and give you a much-needed hug?
- Will he take your trash out to the curb so you don’t have to?
- Will he get up and do the dishes after dinner?
- Most importantly, will he look in your eyes like you are the best thing that ever happened to him?
As we age, we are going to want more in a partner than just his looks and we will 
more than likely need more, especially in our golden years.
I watched my father take care of my mom as she was dying. He wiped her brow, took her to her chemo treatments, made her soup, and held her hand when she was scared.
My father is adorable – just ask my friends – but he would never have been the most handsome man on the block.
If he had been single and dating in the digital age, he probably would have been passed over by lots of women on dating sites.
Yet it’s his kindness and the love he radiates from within that women of all ages adore about him once they get to know him.
I can’t deny that looks are nice. They are.
But next time you are reading those online profiles and you are thinking, “Hmm, not so cute,” dig a little deeper and pay attention to what that man is saying.
If he writes that he’s kind, nice, loves his animals and his kids, he’s worth checking out -even if he’s not the most handsome guy on the page. He’s probably a man with a wonderful heart.
More importantly, his looks could very well grow on you. After getting to know him, he may be like my father is…cute, adorable, loving and there for you through thick and thin.
And that, my friend, is the true mark of a Quality Man.
I’d love to share with you how to stop dating the wrong guys over and over again, and instead, how to spot Quality Men right away, get dates with them and finally start the relationship you’ve been waiting for.
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Until next time-
Believing in You!
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Hi Lisa, I’m in my early thirties though couldn’t help myself and applaud at your blog. I totally agree! A guy who’s kind by heart, passionate about something he cares for in life and wants to spend quality time with his girl- and that doesn’t mean having a ‘big wallet’! At least not for me- that’s what goes way beyond dating. You create a connection on a deeper level that’ll last a lifetime! Thank you so much for sharing this!
You are so welcome. Thank you for writing. Really appreciate your thoughts and comments.