Fear of sexual assault. It seems like these men are so sex-starved, they want to jump all over you. Even stealing a kiss without asking is uncomfortable. And insisting you sleep with them after three dates….what rule is that?
Similarly, after 50 my libido is not what it was, and I’m afraid they’re going to be disappointed to find out how uninterested I am. Not totally, but they apparently want to make up for lost time or something.
May 30, 2018 at 5:26 pm
Cate
You’ve left out a couple big fears:
Fear of sexual assault. It seems like these men are so sex-starved, they want to jump all over you. Even stealing a kiss without asking is uncomfortable. And insisting you sleep with them after three dates….what rule is that?
Similarly, after 50 my libido is not what it was, and I’m afraid they’re going to be disappointed to find out how uninterested I am. Not totally, but they apparently want to make up for lost time or something.
What suggestions do you have for that?