How to Magnetize Your Soul Mate on Valentine’s Day
There are some days where being single really sucks! Today, February 14th happens to be one of them. You can’t help but pass colorful storefront windows loaded with Valentine’s Day ideas and gifts. You find your email box loaded with Restaurant.com and Groupon offers wanting you and the sweetheart you wish you had to dine with them. Everywhere you look it seems like couple’s are holding hands and kissing.
The huge emphasis on Valentine’s Day love felt so intense that even when I was single, not only did I feel lonely on this day, but I also felt left out of something that seemed to be universally happening for everyone but me. It really surprised me; after all, I was supposed to be one of those women who felt ok being single. I’m sure it’s no surprise that lots of men and women find today one of the hardest days of the year to get through.
When there wasn’t a man in my life, I knew if I wanted to feel “the love” on this day, I was going to have to make that happen by doing something really nice for me. I’d pick up one my favorite meals from my favorite Thai restaurant. I’d top off the best curry dish I’d had in eons with the creamiest chocolate chip ice cream I’d loved since I was a kid from Graeter’s out of Cincinnati.
Then I’d fill my bathtub with lots of just the right temperature of hot water and a few drops of lavender oil. I’d luxuriously soak and read a novel I’d been meaning to get to for a while. By the time I was done, I was feeling pretty good about myself. I decided there was no way I was spending Valentine’s Day alone the following year, so I toweled off and headed to my computer to look for a “Quality Man” of my own.
Just so you know, even men can feel the sadness of being alone on Valentine’s Day and you will probably find quite a few hanging out at your favorite online site just waiting for you! Unless you want a repeat of spending the night alone with your favorite meal, bath and book on Valentine’s Day, then now may be the time for getting out of your comfort zone by putting your picture and profile online to start looking for a great guy. All you have to do is plant yourself in front of your computer at your favorite online dating site.
Be daring today as you look for love. No one knows you and no one knows what you’re wearing so be brave and start a chat conversation with a man online that looks interesting to you. Allow yourself to feel what its like to flirt again. Be short and sweet as you answer his questions. And remember to ask him questions too!
Do something different! Get out of your box and try talking to a man with a cool accent from London or Australia. See what a man in another country is like. Know that any man you speak with is another opportunity to practice your feminine flirting skills.
You could even speak with someone who lives closer. In fact why not have 3 or 4 different chats going at the same time? I know it sounds silly but it can be so much fun and there is something so sexy about lots of male attention all at once that will make you feel really good and really desirable!
I hope this blog encourages you to make today a fun one by giving yourself a special treat and by heading online for some wonderful male attention. Let me know how your online flirting goes and how you did today.
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Valentines day is always tough for me but this past year I managed to get some of my single girlfriends together and spend the night talking about our past relationships. I also had them write a letter to themselves about a past relationship that we would share and then later burn.
This exercise had some pretty deep emotion but it also allowed us to put to bed some of our past relationships.