I met a great guy who was wiped out financially from his divorce. He was fun and we got along great. A year later, his financial situation has gotten worse. After his car lease was up, he couldn’t afford another car. I ended up letting him use my car, driving him around and finally realized I was feeling the burden of his financial situation.
He had no savings, no retirement and the longer we were together, the more I felt “that if we stayed together, I would be the main source of income and his retirement. I broke up with him because of it. It’s true that if you overlook the dealbreakers, they catch up with you.
December 2, 2019 at 10:46 am
Lisa
Sometimes Kai…So glad you shared your story. When we meet great men who are financially wiped out, we see their potential and often times give them a chance. When reality clicks in, which is what happened to you, you have to make a decision that honors you. Sounds like you did even though I’m sure it wasn’t easy because of the emotional connection. Hope financial instability is now on your Deal Breaker List.
November 28, 2019 at 12:35 am
Kai Clark
I met a great guy who was wiped out financially from his divorce. He was fun and we got along great. A year later, his financial situation has gotten worse. After his car lease was up, he couldn’t afford another car. I ended up letting him use my car, driving him around and finally realized I was feeling the burden of his financial situation.
He had no savings, no retirement and the longer we were together, the more I felt “that if we stayed together, I would be the main source of income and his retirement. I broke up with him because of it. It’s true that if you overlook the dealbreakers, they catch up with you.
December 2, 2019 at 10:46 am
Lisa
Sometimes Kai…So glad you shared your story. When we meet great men who are financially wiped out, we see their potential and often times give them a chance. When reality clicks in, which is what happened to you, you have to make a decision that honors you. Sounds like you did even though I’m sure it wasn’t easy because of the emotional connection. Hope financial instability is now on your Deal Breaker List.