Do You Know How To Find Mr. Right After 50?
Before I started on my dating journey back in 2002, I had this vivid dream where my “Dating Fairy Godmother” waved her wand and brought my true LOVE right to me.
Just dropped him right on my doorstep. Oh how I wish!
Unfortunately finding men just doesn’t work this way… especially at our age… although I admit, it sure would be nice, don’t you think?
As young adults in our teens and early twenties, we were exposed daily to single men all the time… at school, camp, after school activities, and at Churches or Temple’s.
Today as grown ups, we don’t really have these types of common meeting places.
Now, it’s up to us as women over 50 to find the men we want to date and as you’ve probably figured out…. it’s a lot harder than it was back then.
Dating takes some work especially if you want to successfully find a great guy to bring into your life.
The good thing is… men are out there looking for someone just like you. You just have to find a way to discover each other and these 3 Tips can help you do just that.
Tip #1-Be courageous and put yourself out in the world on a daily basis
If you stay home all the time with your cat, dog, bird or even grandchild, you just aren’t putting yourself in the position to meet new men.
Try taking classes or consider participating in activities that really pique your interest and make you feel happy.
When you’re happy, you glow and guess what? That glow is the magical beam that will pull a man right to you.
Tip #2-Continue dating even when it’s hard and you feel like quitting
The only way to really know the type of man you ultimately want is by dating lots of them.
Yes, I know it means a calendar filled with meeting good and not so good men for coffee or tea… but it’s the only way to determine if “he” might be the one you’d like to have a relationship with.
Sometimes it requires kissing a lot of frogs to get to the right one. Or you can view it as one man closer to the one you want in your life.
When you’re frustrated, take some time off from dating to refuel your inner glow.
Get the support you need from friends, or a dating coach like me who can give you tools for dealing with the dating challenges you are facing as a woman over 50.
Consider scheduling a Complimentary Find Your Soul Mate Discovery Session with me to get an understanding of what’s holding you back from finding the love of your life.
Tip #3-You Need to Have a Dating Strategy in place to be successful
What is your goal for dating? Is it having a man around for occasional companionship or for the rest of your life?
Once you’ve figured this out then work backwards so you can figure out the steps needed for accomplishing this goal.
This means figuring out strategies for where you’re going to meet men in your area, what online dating sites you are going to get yourself on, how much time you are going to spend on dating everyday and so much more.
With these 3 Dating Tip’s in place, you should start seeing positive changes happening fairly quickly in your dating life!
Let me know how they end up working for you.
Until next time~
Believing in You!
P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50
#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon
Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here
#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group
It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here
#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program
I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.
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I am 65 and I have been told that I have to get my finances in order for me to find a quality man. I have had two previous marriages, now i am widowed. I have to support myself and work a full time job. I have settled before and have picked men who I had to take care of. My great Indian friend told me that I need to look and have higher self-esteem. What would be your advice. I have picked the poor type. How can i change?
Hi Gerry
I do believe we attract men who mirror the issues we need to heal in our own lives. It sounds like this might be what is happening for you. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to do anything and everything that makes you happy in life. This creates an inner glow within you that men will be so attracted to and even more important doing things for you will make you feel good about you. Happy Holiday’s!
Hi…
I am a 50 year old woman who is looking for love once again. I was married for 18 years and he passed way two years ago…sad, yes.
I am ready to begin anew, finding another love of my life. I still feel saddened but I am ready to move along. Where can I meet quality men? I have been on dating sites galore. The men I find are more confused, more in debt, and just want one thing. I am looking for the total package…the last love of my life to be with. Please help.