Dear Liza you have really great advices. I like that.
April 1, 2013 at 10:42 am
Lisa
Thank you Soun. Glad I can be of help to you.
March 15, 2013 at 8:58 pm
Tom again
Hey Lisa – I hope I’m not the only guy chipping in to your great website. I figure if a guy sends some comments in once in a while, Mars and Venus will meet happily more often, no?
Jan’s post and your reply were poignant. You’ll always have the high-energy eyecandy George’s and the Cougars out there in their 50s (sigh)… but I think MOST of us on both sides of the solar system have a realistic sense of her time of life.
One guy view: I am attracted to ladies who at least try to stay fit *reasonably*, not just for chemistry but because the gal(s) are happier too for regular exercise. Also recognizing in our ‘sandwich’ generation there is truly NOT much time if you are a loving family matriarch or patriarch. So make time but don’t demand fulltime. And finally the mistake that torpedoed my marriage – not keeping to the 3:1 positive:negative commentary – has to forever be corrected and evident in the first few dates. Here’s another interesting link on Vibrant for the tone of understanding that blows away the eyecandy (damn, that Clooney gets mentioned everywhere!):
April 1, 2013 at 10:30 am
soun
Dear Liza you have really great advices. I like that.
April 1, 2013 at 10:42 am
Lisa
Thank you Soun. Glad I can be of help to you.
March 15, 2013 at 8:58 pm
Tom again
Hey Lisa – I hope I’m not the only guy chipping in to your great website. I figure if a guy sends some comments in once in a while, Mars and Venus will meet happily more often, no?
Jan’s post and your reply were poignant. You’ll always have the high-energy eyecandy George’s and the Cougars out there in their 50s (sigh)… but I think MOST of us on both sides of the solar system have a realistic sense of her time of life.
One guy view: I am attracted to ladies who at least try to stay fit *reasonably*, not just for chemistry but because the gal(s) are happier too for regular exercise. Also recognizing in our ‘sandwich’ generation there is truly NOT much time if you are a loving family matriarch or patriarch. So make time but don’t demand fulltime. And finally the mistake that torpedoed my marriage – not keeping to the 3:1 positive:negative commentary – has to forever be corrected and evident in the first few dates. Here’s another interesting link on Vibrant for the tone of understanding that blows away the eyecandy (damn, that Clooney gets mentioned everywhere!):
http://www.vibrantnation.com/love-sex/sexual-health/sex-and-his-self-esteem/
Hope this helps –