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Lisa – thanks. This link below is not too related… except for the realtime, Great Recession-induced situations and mindsets most men like me find ourselves in encountering dating post50s; however I am sharing as fodder for another blog topic. The Aussies are nice and blunt – not seeing much discussion on these realities in the US media!
Hi Lisa; I just want to thank you for all you emails with the nuggets of advice. I am 45 and divorced after being with him 24 years. When i 1st contacted you -you said your advice was still good for me and you were right! The men that take an interest in me have all been in their early 50’s. I like their maturity and manners though they do seem to talk down to me a little and I am very mature for my age(friends and clients tell me) and I feel i am smart as well. So how do I handle that without offending them and not being myself?
March 7, 2013 at 10:56 pm
Tom
also on the last comment – clearly the qualifier “some women our age” is most appropriate, just like “some men our age” are deserving…
March 7, 2013 at 8:55 pm
Tom
I would agree that a leathered lack of appreciation from “women our age” is true. Its not that guys can’t take this once every few days/weeks – it’s just that it can get chronic. Post-split for me, certainly I could have benefited from the mantra of 3:1 positive over negative comments….ladies pinch each other here too and your guys. The planet will be happier!
March 7, 2013 at 8:51 pm
Tom
Ladies – from just one guy’s perspective, while I think it can be this way – if you are earlybirds the key is what happens the following weeks. It happened with me and a terrific months-long relationship followed with lots of the positives – mutual time commitments amid hectic ‘sandwich’ generation schedules. Give it a shot – but bail if it doesn’t followthrough with no regrets. I trust that most readers can read a player… and if you take him, enjoy the moment but there may not be more. Nonplayers who have a major first connection – at our age it is not the same negative (do you think?) as looking for a lifelong-raise family years partner.
March 8, 2013 at 3:08 pm
Lisa
Tom, As always I enjoy your insights. The men I’ve spoken with…and I’ve interviewed quite a few of them, have shared that if they want a true relationship, they are willing to wait. But, if a woman wants to have sex on that first date…they are fine with it but it usually means it’s going to stop right there. Would love to hear more of your thoughts. Lisa
March 7, 2013 at 4:42 pm
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Dear Lisa,
Thank you so much for sending me very good cases here. I really like all of your advise to them. So far I have faced these challenges too and I really need to know how to deal with these chellenges. Now I got from you and I am so exited to learn from you here. It really helpful to me.
God Bless You,
Soun
March 7, 2013 at 4:45 pm
Lisa
Soun, You are so welcome. Glad I’ve been of help to you. Let me know if there are more topics you’d like to see more about. Lisa
Dear Lisa: Once you had sex with a man but then stopped in order to get out of the “friends with benefits” situation…then what? I did this with the one I love, but now he is getting tired of waiting to get sex again and he is seeing someone else. What can I do?
March 7, 2013 at 4:46 pm
Lisa
Blanca
Let him go. He’s Narcissistic and all about him and you really want someone who is all about you and the relationship. Good Luck! Lisa
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March 11, 2013 at 9:43 am
Tom again
Lisa – thanks. This link below is not too related… except for the realtime, Great Recession-induced situations and mindsets most men like me find ourselves in encountering dating post50s; however I am sharing as fodder for another blog topic. The Aussies are nice and blunt – not seeing much discussion on these realities in the US media!
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March 8, 2013 at 5:57 pm
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Hi Lisa; I just want to thank you for all you emails with the nuggets of advice. I am 45 and divorced after being with him 24 years. When i 1st contacted you -you said your advice was still good for me and you were right! The men that take an interest in me have all been in their early 50’s. I like their maturity and manners though they do seem to talk down to me a little and I am very mature for my age(friends and clients tell me) and I feel i am smart as well. So how do I handle that without offending them and not being myself?
March 7, 2013 at 10:56 pm
Tom
also on the last comment – clearly the qualifier “some women our age” is most appropriate, just like “some men our age” are deserving…
March 7, 2013 at 8:55 pm
Tom
I would agree that a leathered lack of appreciation from “women our age” is true. Its not that guys can’t take this once every few days/weeks – it’s just that it can get chronic. Post-split for me, certainly I could have benefited from the mantra of 3:1 positive over negative comments….ladies pinch each other here too and your guys. The planet will be happier!
March 7, 2013 at 8:51 pm
Tom
Ladies – from just one guy’s perspective, while I think it can be this way – if you are earlybirds the key is what happens the following weeks. It happened with me and a terrific months-long relationship followed with lots of the positives – mutual time commitments amid hectic ‘sandwich’ generation schedules. Give it a shot – but bail if it doesn’t followthrough with no regrets. I trust that most readers can read a player… and if you take him, enjoy the moment but there may not be more. Nonplayers who have a major first connection – at our age it is not the same negative (do you think?) as looking for a lifelong-raise family years partner.
March 8, 2013 at 3:08 pm
Lisa
Tom, As always I enjoy your insights. The men I’ve spoken with…and I’ve interviewed quite a few of them, have shared that if they want a true relationship, they are willing to wait. But, if a woman wants to have sex on that first date…they are fine with it but it usually means it’s going to stop right there. Would love to hear more of your thoughts. Lisa
March 7, 2013 at 4:42 pm
Soun
Dear Lisa,
Thank you so much for sending me very good cases here. I really like all of your advise to them. So far I have faced these challenges too and I really need to know how to deal with these chellenges. Now I got from you and I am so exited to learn from you here. It really helpful to me.
God Bless You,
Soun
March 7, 2013 at 4:45 pm
Lisa
Soun, You are so welcome. Glad I’ve been of help to you. Let me know if there are more topics you’d like to see more about. Lisa
March 7, 2013 at 2:45 pm
Blanca
Dear Lisa: Once you had sex with a man but then stopped in order to get out of the “friends with benefits” situation…then what? I did this with the one I love, but now he is getting tired of waiting to get sex again and he is seeing someone else. What can I do?
March 7, 2013 at 4:46 pm
Lisa
Blanca
Let him go. He’s Narcissistic and all about him and you really want someone who is all about you and the relationship. Good Luck! Lisa