3 Tips To Keep You Busy When You Don’t Have A Saturday Night Date

Sometimes when you’re single, weekends can be unbelievably long especially when you have nothing to do.

Your couples friends go to the latest restaurant, party or movie leaving you at home watching Netflix, eating your popcorn wishing you could find someone to share your life with.

Being single can be lonely and challenging but it can also be a time where you get back in touch with YOU again.

After my second marriage ended, I remember a friend of mine sharing these wise words with me.

“Lisa, enjoy this time regrouping and getting back in touch with what you love. It’s a time you have total control over your life and can do anything you want.”

I took her words to heart and began creating the life I wanted.

It was a lot of fun.

It gave me time to heal before re-entering the dating scene.

And it gave me things to do when I didn’t have a weekend date.

Here are 3 tips you can start using right away to fill your life with fun while waiting to find the one.

Tip #1….Girlfriends are super important when you’re single.

They support you during your ups and downs and they’re there for you when you want to play.

Don’t have enough girlfriends in your life?

Make a list of all the women you know that you could do an activity with.

Ask friends to help you with this tip by sharing the names of their single girlfriends.

Call them up and go have fun! Go to comedy clubs, the movies or out to dinner.

You won’t be sitting home every weekend when you have friends to hang out with.

Tip #2…Make a list of everything you’ve wanted to do but haven’t.

I remember wanting to take painting classes so I signed up for one at my local community center.

Over time, not only did I learn how to paint with watercolors but I also became friends with a couple of women in my class, which fits tip #1 perfectly!

Here are some ideas to get you started…

Art classes like painting and Zentangle
Yoga
Pilates
Horseback Riding (I had fun with this one until I fell off the horse)
Baking Classes
Book Clubs
Salsa Dancing

My friend and colleague, Carol Allen, offers the coolest report called The Right Man Report that shows you how compatible the two of you are.

Tip #3…Join Meetup.com

Today, quite a few meet-ups are geared to over 50’s men and women.

With all the activities they offer, you never have to sit at home alone ever again.

In my area, some of the meetups offered this month are activities like candle making while enjoying cheese, dessert and wine, Happy Hours, a Comedy Club, Sunday brunch and a film fest just to name a few.

It’s time now for you to get busy creating a fun life.

Your homework this week is to….

Make a list of friends you can spend time with
Create a list of activities that would be fun to do then choose one and try it out this week
Join Meet-Up and start going to fun activities they offer
Want to know the advantage of doing all these fun things?

It gets you in touch with your passions in life.

Your passions light you up and make you glow; quality men love and are highly attracted to in a woman!

Ever wonder if a man you’re dating is the right one for you?

It gives you info on the relationship’s strengths and weakness and how you can deal with them.

I used it in my own life when I was dating to help weed out guys that were going nowhere.

Its accuracy saved me time and a lot of heartache!!!!!!

Take a look and see what you think by clicking here: The Right Man Report

Also, take a minute and post what you’re doing on a Saturday night to keep you busy.

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