7 Profile Rules for Attracting A Quality Man Online this Summer
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Internet dating can be challenging.
But, you can find love online when you know how to navigate the dating sites and you have a great profile.
And that’s why today, I want to share with you 7 of my ‘Best Profile Rules’ guaranteed to help you attract the type of man you’ve been wanting to meet.
Profile Rule #1 . . . Men are visual and what gets their attention first is your smile.
Over the years, I’ve looked at a lot of profile pictures and I’m always amazed when women post pictures that could literally be mug shots.
I kid you not.
All they need are a clipboard with numbers across their chest.
That’s how unhappy they look.
The thing is, men are naturally drawn to pictures of you smiling.
So make sure you post pics with some makeup and clothes that show off the best you and for sure a big smile.
You’ll come across as fun and positive and as the kind of woman a good man wants to meet.
Profile Rule #2 . . . Be creative when answering the profile questions on Dating Sites
No one loves answering all those essay questions dating sites ask you.
But, it’s worth your while to get a bit creative when you do especially if you can write a story that a man can imagine himself being part of.
Here’s what I mean. The site asks you . . .
What’s Your Idea of a Great Date?
Instead of just saying riding bikes in the mountains. Add a few adjectives that draws him in.
Here’s an example . . .
Riding bicycles in the park together on a beautiful summer day would be a great date. We’d stop by a stream, open a bottle of wine and enjoy a wonderful picnic together sharing our food as well as our thoughts.
Profile Rule #3 . . . Work at keeping the I’s in your profile to a minimum.
Ever go to a party where you meet someone who monologues about themselves with phrases that continually emphasize the “I” word as in . . . “I do this, I like that, I am this”.
They never even stop to ask you a question.
Gets pretty boring right? And you start looking for a way to escape.
This version happens online with the overuse of the word “I”.
Here’s how to avoid that “I” trap.
Instead of writing . . .
I am looking for a wonderful man to share my life with.
Shorten it to: Am looking for a wonderful man to share my life with.
It makes you appear so much more laid back and relaxed – a quality men are looking for.
Profile Rule #4 . . . Ask questions in your profile to draw a man in
For Example: You can say something like . . . Love getting dressed up and dining out but also enjoy a great burger at one of the dives around town.
Then add a sentence like . . . What’s your favorite spot to hang out? or Want to join me?
These types of questions give a man an easy way to get the conversation going.
Profile Rule #5 . . . Leave out Sexual Innuendos
When I first started dating (long before I became a dating coach), I wrote a line in my profile about making love on the beach.
Wow, what a mistake that was.
Today, I never let a woman write anything that relates to sex or making love because guess who it attracts?
Booty calls.
Profile Rule #6 . . . I know you’re looking for your ‘soul mate’ but leave those words out of your profile.
Hey, I used to write that too because that is who we want to share our life with.
But it’s really cliche and men have told me they see it over and over again in women’s profiles.
Your goal is to look unique not the same as every other woman online.
Profile Rule #7 . . . Be true to who you are in your profile
Pretending to be a certain type of woman just to attract a “Quality Man” not only doesn’t work but it’s also pretty hard to keep the facade up.
You have no control over who a man ultimately wants or who he is looking for.
You only have control over what you want in a “Quality Man.”
And that’s why all my coaching clients use a Dating Strategy called a Quality Man Template to help them finally attract the right man into their life.
Lisa, I met a really great guy. He’s thoughtful and smart and tells me he loves that he can talk with me about everything. He said he’s a bit scared that he feels so comfortable so fast. He’s a great guy and I’m having fun. My VIP Day with you and the Quality Man Template we worked on together told the universe precisely what I wanted and bam! He appeared. You were so incredibly helpful, Lisa. Thank you doesn’t begin to cover it! Aly
I’d love to help you find love after 50.
If you’re ready to take action toward this dream, then click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been happening in your love life and why dating has been so challenging for you.
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If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
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