You see an attractive man and you’d like to get him to notice you. But what do you do?
Men need encouragement to know it’s safe to approach you. Here are five tips certain to let him know you’re interested in him.
Tip #1
Smile at a man you’re attracted to and make eye contact with him for five seconds.
Yes, FIVE FULL SECONDS…. It will seem like an eternity but it’s a signal to him that you’re interested.
Tip #2
Get his attention by asking him a question.
Remember men are wired to help women.
Here are examples of questions you can ask to get the dialogue going between the two of you…
- You’re at a happy hour with a friend and a man sits next to you and orders red wine. Ask him about it and whether he’d recommend it.
- You’re at Starbucks. Ask if the chair next to a nice looking man is taken. Or if you’re in line, ask what his favorite coffee is.
- You’re at a dog park. Ask about his dog’s veterinarian and if he’d recommend him or her for your puppy.
Tip #3
Listen to what a man is really saying to you. Men do speak another language that women don’t necessarily hear or understand.
Heidi was sitting at a bar having dinner with her friend.
They struck up a conversation with a man who sat next to them.
It was her friend who asked the question, “What salad is that?” and the conversation between the three of them took off.
When her friend left, Heidi and this attractive man from out of town continued talking.
Over and over again he shared with her that he wasn’t locked into where he lived and that he’d seriously dated women from cities other then the one he lived in.
She totally missed his male language hint for, “are you interested in dating me even though I live out of town?” ultimately losing out on an opportunity to date a man she was attracted to.
Tip #4-
To this day, one of favorite television shows is I Love Lucy™.
In the 1950’s, a woman would drop her handkerchief in front of a man to let him know she was interested in him.
Lucy, dressed in a disguise, was pretending to be another woman. She wanted to see if Ricky would flirt with her.
So she dropped her handkerchief and said, “Pardon me,” fully expecting him to pick it up for her. Both understood this was a sign she was interested in him and he could approach her if the attraction was mutual.
You can do the same thing with men today.
Instead of using a handkerchief, try dropping your phone if it won’t shatter or a folder or package you might be carrying.
Who knows what it might lead to!
Tip #5
Your job is to let him know you’re interested in having him approach you.
His job is to ask you out if he’s interested in you.
If he’s not, it doesn’t mean he’s personally rejecting you. He might be married, have a girlfriend or you might not be his type.
Just move on… There are plenty of other men out there.
Chalk the experience up as an opportunity to practice your flirting skills.
These five tips will give you the opportunity to interact with a lot of men and you never know. One just might turn out to be your Mr. Right.
Until Next Time~
Believing in You!
P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50
#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon
Where I will walk you through a step-by-step breakdown of the exact tools and strategies you need for attracting the right man into your life — Click here
#2: Join the Finding Love after 50 Facebook group
It’s our Facebook community where you can connect with me and a community of women ready to support you on your journey for finding love after 50 — Click here
#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program
I would love to learn more about your dating journey, understand where you might be stuck, and give you a personalized step-by-step blueprint to attract the right man. And maybe even talk about how we can work together.
If you are interested in learning more about how I can help, you can Click here to answer a few quick questions and schedule a call.
#4: Subscribe to my YouTube Channel
Click here to explore my YouTube channel for valuable tips on dating and relationships after 50! Discover insights that will empower you to attract the right partner with confidence.
Copyright© 2024 Lisa Copeland. All rights reserved.
