Absolutely right. Who wants to be a pen pal. I also exclude all men that just send flirts. If they are not motivated enough to at least type out an email I pass them by. I usually meet within a couple a exchanges and a phone call. I often ask for his telephone number and call him. Lot safer for women and it sort a guarentees that another woman is going to pick up the phone.
Love the idea of coffee/tea, lunch is also a good idea to limit the exposure.
I hate the idea of internet dating but I joined Ourtime.com and in 9 days met not one but 3 quality men. I passed on my username and password to a girlfriend who put up her picture and profile and also met someone. So I guess it works. PS I am 60.
September 13, 2017 at 10:33 am
Lisa
Yeah Michelle. Love this. You’re right…Quality Men are online and I’m so happy you met 3 within the first 9 days. Keep me posted on how its going. Hugs~
August 31, 2017 at 11:16 am
Shannon L Moore
Thank for your insights. I have to ask though, can you plz make them available in a mobile format?
August 31, 2017 at 11:18 am
Lisa
Shannon…our site is mobile ready. What type of trouble are you having?
August 31, 2017 at 12:20 am
Ossie
Hi, totally agree that men should be the ones that call you. The site I used have feature that you can send “likes” on general and specific photos and specific content, I used that and then it was the guy’s turn. Then we were on the chat and only writing about easy going stuff. First very short. Let the guy set the frequency and type of subject so I didn’t stonewall him. I had a couple of such, some went on and some guys dropped out and then I didn’t reply to them anymore. Some were not polite and those I just blocked. After just three weeks I got in contact with the man of my life, that is about a year ago. We started writing for several weeks and our first date was a walk in a nice park where we also had a coffee. Next date he initiated and that was a breakfast at his house with a walk and at the third date was just magic. We did see each other every second weekend and then started to have activities together like skiing, dancing, Nordic ice skating at lakes, long walks, golfing, running etc. A lot of fun. We laugh a lot and also share some hard stuff. Still see my friends a lot by myself and continue to go on trips with them as he also has his own time. We don’t live together, not yet.
August 31, 2017 at 9:37 am
Lisa
Ossie…congrats on finding the love of your life. So awesome! So happy for you! Hugs~
September 1, 2017 at 1:47 pm
Michelle Fenn
Absolutely right. Who wants to be a pen pal. I also exclude all men that just send flirts. If they are not motivated enough to at least type out an email I pass them by. I usually meet within a couple a exchanges and a phone call. I often ask for his telephone number and call him. Lot safer for women and it sort a guarentees that another woman is going to pick up the phone.
Love the idea of coffee/tea, lunch is also a good idea to limit the exposure.
I hate the idea of internet dating but I joined Ourtime.com and in 9 days met not one but 3 quality men. I passed on my username and password to a girlfriend who put up her picture and profile and also met someone. So I guess it works. PS I am 60.
September 13, 2017 at 10:33 am
Lisa
Yeah Michelle. Love this. You’re right…Quality Men are online and I’m so happy you met 3 within the first 9 days. Keep me posted on how its going. Hugs~
August 31, 2017 at 11:16 am
Shannon L Moore
Thank for your insights. I have to ask though, can you plz make them available in a mobile format?
August 31, 2017 at 11:18 am
Lisa
Shannon…our site is mobile ready. What type of trouble are you having?
August 31, 2017 at 12:20 am
Ossie
Hi, totally agree that men should be the ones that call you. The site I used have feature that you can send “likes” on general and specific photos and specific content, I used that and then it was the guy’s turn. Then we were on the chat and only writing about easy going stuff. First very short. Let the guy set the frequency and type of subject so I didn’t stonewall him. I had a couple of such, some went on and some guys dropped out and then I didn’t reply to them anymore. Some were not polite and those I just blocked. After just three weeks I got in contact with the man of my life, that is about a year ago. We started writing for several weeks and our first date was a walk in a nice park where we also had a coffee. Next date he initiated and that was a breakfast at his house with a walk and at the third date was just magic. We did see each other every second weekend and then started to have activities together like skiing, dancing, Nordic ice skating at lakes, long walks, golfing, running etc. A lot of fun. We laugh a lot and also share some hard stuff. Still see my friends a lot by myself and continue to go on trips with them as he also has his own time. We don’t live together, not yet.
August 31, 2017 at 9:37 am
Lisa
Ossie…congrats on finding the love of your life. So awesome! So happy for you! Hugs~