May I add something here? It works for both men & women, but since you’re writing from the female perspective, we’ll stick with that. Jot down somewhere, a dozen (more or Less), qualities/traits you will NOT tolerate under any circumstance. He can be the most amazing lover, but if he’s shows a trait you will not tolerate, you must move on. It can be major, or minor. Sometimes it’s the petty stuff that drives you nuts. On the other hand, make another list of a dozen or so traits that makes him a keeper. Last make one final list of traits that you can put up with, assuming there’s enough good points that you can overlook some faults. Remember you have your ideosincrasies too. In regards to the list of bad points, ask yourself do you find yourself constantly meeting/dating them? I recently had a discussion with a few women of Facebook, and each one said they would rather be single then put up with an unhappy relationship. I would too.
February 23, 2023 at 3:10 pm
Lisa
We have a tendency to date the same person over and over again without realizing it. And people that are different who might be a better fit for us, we have a tendency to ignore them. The question is what constitutes a bad relationship based on your comment Jack.
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February 22, 2023 at 9:14 pm
Jack Levin
May I add something here? It works for both men & women, but since you’re writing from the female perspective, we’ll stick with that. Jot down somewhere, a dozen (more or Less), qualities/traits you will NOT tolerate under any circumstance. He can be the most amazing lover, but if he’s shows a trait you will not tolerate, you must move on. It can be major, or minor. Sometimes it’s the petty stuff that drives you nuts. On the other hand, make another list of a dozen or so traits that makes him a keeper. Last make one final list of traits that you can put up with, assuming there’s enough good points that you can overlook some faults. Remember you have your ideosincrasies too. In regards to the list of bad points, ask yourself do you find yourself constantly meeting/dating them? I recently had a discussion with a few women of Facebook, and each one said they would rather be single then put up with an unhappy relationship. I would too.
February 23, 2023 at 3:10 pm
Lisa
We have a tendency to date the same person over and over again without realizing it. And people that are different who might be a better fit for us, we have a tendency to ignore them. The question is what constitutes a bad relationship based on your comment Jack.