4 Quick Ways To Know if There is Relationship Potential With Any Man You Date
If you’re ready to attract a romantic long-term relationship with a good man into your life, you’ll want to make sure you’re connecting with him on 3 levels.
When you understand the connections between the heart, friendship and intimacy and how they work together in a relationship, you’ll be able to determine whether or not a man you’re interested in is someone you can go the long haul with.
Let’s start with Connection #1 . . . Your Heart And Friendship
If you and a man connect through your heart and through friendship, you’ve probably found a man you absolutely love and adore.
The two of you can talk for hours but when it comes to sexual chemistry, the spark is missing or flat.
This connection creates a lasting friendship with a great man long after the date has ended.
He’s perfect for taking to a wedding or an event that you don’t want to attend on your own.
Or he’s the one you take to the latest movie you want to see so you don’t have to go alone.
Either way, it’s nice to be around male energy and this type of relationship is usually laid back and easy.
Connection #2 . . . Friendship And Intimacy
This combo is Friends With Benefits.
This connection suits you on the days you want fantastic mental and physical stimulation.
There is not a heart connection.
In fact, after having mind-blowing sex, the two of you could easily get out of bed and go back to doing your own thing with no after sex glow and cuddling.
Be careful if you decide to go this route.
You can stay connected to a man for up to 2 weeks after the two of you have been intimate with each other.
He on the other hand, stays connected for about 45 minutes.
Connection #3 . . . Your Heart And Intimacy
Have you ever met a man where your heart opens, the sparks fly and you find yourself almost instantaneously in love?
It feels like all you want to do is spend the day in bed, feeling the love that abundantly spills between the two of you.
This is chemistry, an Oxytocin high and it’s a connection you’ll have with a man through your heart and your body.
It’s powerful.
It’s strong and it rarely gets you anywhere because there is no friendship beneath it.
Without friendship, the relationship can wither away as the intensity of sex fades.
I had this type of connection with my second husband.
We had tremendous chemistry and we quickly fell so crazy in love that we were engaged within 3 months.
It was a whirlwind relationship that ended almost 2 years to the day we married.
I could have saved myself a lot of heartache if I’d had this knowledge back then.
If you find yourself intensely attracted to a man this intensely, RUN before you get too connected.
Connection #4 . . . Your Heart, A Friendship And Intimacy
A connection that includes your heart, friendship and intimacy has the potential for creating a long term relationship.
It doesn’t mean it will always work out, but it is a signal to move ahead if this is what you want.
These four connections will also give you the key to figuring out why your relationships weren’t working in the past.
Can you see what connection might have been missing that kept the relationship from working the way you wanted it to?
Now that you get the 4 connection you’ll be able to quickly assess the relationship potential with any man you date and figure out exactly how a man will fit in your life just by using this invaluable dating tool.
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I’d love to know what you think about these connections and how they might help you in the future find love after 50.
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I heard on your last seminar that we need to talk to him from the heard and not the head. However, your seminar ended before that question was answered. Can you explain the difference?
Hey Sandy…will be doing a future FB Live or Teleseminar on this in Sept. Watch for details in FB group or email.