3 Proven Ways for Attracting Your Mr. Right after 50
Today I want to talk to you about 3 ways to get yourself out of a dating rut and into the magical dating life you desire.
Often women come to work with me when they’ve hit a wall in their dating lives.
Things aren’t going well.
They aren’t meeting the guys they want to meet and even worse . . . no one is noticing them online or in the real world.
I want you to know this happens to every woman at sometime during their dating journey.
Believe me, I see it over and over again.
And when it happens, you start self doubting and blaming yourself because nothing you’re doing seems to be working anymore.
Or even worse, you GIVE UP!
Today, I want to share 3 TIPS to help you get out of your dating rut so you can get back into the dating world and have fun attracting a great guy into your life. Ready?
Step 1 is to realize that you’re not alone
When things aren’t going the way you think they should in your dating life, you start having thoughts like . . . “Everybody else is out there dating good guys. Or, the guys I want to date never contact me.”
You end up feeling like no one else is frustrated . . . that only you are struggling with dating.
Well, that’s simply not true.
Why?
As you know from Social Media, most people put only their best side on Facebook and Instagram.
They don’t share the pain they’re feeling.
Think about how many times you didn’t let anyone know when things weren’t going well.
I see it all the time ― women around the country, around the world― it happens to everyone.
Understand that even though it looks like everybody else is out there dating amazing men and you feel like the only one who isn’t . . . it’s not the case.
And have some compassion for yourself.
Dating is a journey not a destination.
It can take time.
Step 2 ― You want to build your confidence back up
When it feels like nothing is happening in your dating life, you start doubting your attractiveness to men.
To turn that around, you’ll want to have a plan for rebuilding your confidence.
Why?
Because confidence touches how you will get out there and talk to the men you want to date.
Confidence affects how you appear to men.
Confidence affects the men you want to be attracting.
Confidence affects everything about your dating life so it’s important that you keep your confidence really high.
I don’t mean acting superior, conceited or egotistical.
What you want is an inner knowing that you’re an amazing woman just as you are!
That’s why you’ve got to protect your confidence.
The way to do this sounds kind of funny, but it works.
I suggest creating a list of your amazing qualities . . . 10-15 about your physical self, 10-15 about your personality and 10-15 about what you’re good at and interested in.
Then every morning or every time you pass a mirror remind yourself of 2 or 3 of the qualities you love about you.
When you do, you’ll find you start liking the woman you see in the mirror every day.
Step 3 is that we have to get you off the dime by taking action!
If you stay at home thinking woe is me, or you sit around with friends complaining there are no good men out there to date . . . it might feel good in the moment but it doesn’t get you moving forward towards your dream.
Instead, focus on what you used to do that got you dates with good guys, that you’ve stopped doing?
Did you used to try different online dating sites but stopped when you got stuck?
Did you used to talk to men in the real world, then stopped because of the Pandemic?
Did you take classes about dating or get coaching then stopped using what you learned?
Notice what you used to do that you’re no longer doing and then do that again.
Your Assignment For Creating A Magical Over 50’s Dating Life
You can have all these great ideas but you do not get results from things you do not implement.
This is what I tell my clients all the time.
The difference between a successful person and a person who struggles is that the successful person will do what others aren’t willing to do.
This is part of the mindset that will get you out of your rut, past your obstacles and into the magical dating life you desire.
Take the 3 steps we just went through and put them to work cause who knows. . . if you do use them, by spring you could be in that magical relationship you’ve been wanting.
Believing in You!
Your Next Steps to Love after 50. . . .
💞 Feeling like you are on a merry-go-round of mismatched dates? Lets press pause and talk about how we can write a new love story for you. Click here to start our conversation. Tell me your story – I am here to listen and guide you towards meeting someone truly special.
If you are still gearing up for that step, I have plenty of insights and inspiration for you:
1. Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for heartfelt dating wisdom and uplifting success stories from women who have been just where you are. They found love, and so can you. Click here to watch and learn.
2. Discover a new chapter in your dating life with my book, "The Winning Dating Formula." It is more than a book; it is your journey to love mapped out. And it is just a click away on Amazon. Click here and start attracting the love you deserve.
3. Join our Finding Love after 50 Facebook group to find camaraderie and connection. It is a warm and welcoming space to share your journey and receive support every step of the way. Click here to become part of our community.
4. On the lookout for a dating site that resonates with you? Browse through my personal selection of the best dating sites tailor-made for fabulous over 50s. Click here and say goodbye to guesswork.
Let these resources be your steppingstones to a love life filled with promise and joy. When you are ready, I am here to take that journey with you. Together, lets find your Mr. Right! 🌹
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