10 Action Steps The Women Who Meet Mr. Right Are Taking
For most women, finding the right guy after 50 can be frustrating and tiresome. I’ve found the women who get out there and have fun dating and finding Quality Men have had these 10 traits in common that I want to share with you today.
#1. Women who are happily dating feel really great about themselves. They lead active lives that make them exciting, passionate and interesting to men. This woman will make space for a man and the life they’ll lead together without giving up herself and all the activities in her own life just to please him.
#2. They know how to get in touch with their girly-girlness, aka. their true feminine power, which has men jumping at the chance to date them. Here’s the key to know how girly-girl you are… Do you want the man in your life to respect or cherish you above all? If you said cherish, you’re in touch with your inner girly-girl.
#3. Women who know and speak the language men can hear have a huge advantage over other women out there. If you share the types of stories you’d share with your girlfriend with your guy, you’ll lose him right off the bat. He can’t follow what your sister’s best friend’s husband did with his wife. Save that for your girls’ night out.
#4. Ever watch Scarlet O’Hara in Gone With The Wind? This woman wrote the book on how to let a man be a man. It didn’t matter what a man did for her…. She didn’t criticize him or tell him how to do his job. Both of these are huge keys into a man’s psyche.
#5. My clients who found great guys online had AWESOME profiles that drew men in using a story men could imagine themselves in. True, they worked with me on their profiles, which helped because I showed them what to do to keep out the guys they didn’t want to meet. That’s why How To Write An AMAZING PROFILE is the focus of the first class in The Fun Path to Mr. Right Dating Mentorship Group.
#6. Women who meet good matches online are willing to look beyond the selfies, the motorcycles and the guys who post pictures with other women. Online dating is one-dimensional, meaning you can’t see how a man’s personality and looks blend together to form a real person. You want to take the time to read profiles. Also look at the environment surrounding him in his picture…it can also give you an idea of who he is.
#7. Women who have the most fun dating go on a date looking to meet someone new and interesting. They don’t do an interview and they don’t check off an imaginary “must have” checklist that knocks guys off faster than you can drink a cup of coffee. There are good guys out there who could be your friend too. And who knows? Sometimes a friend can become the one. You’ll never know unless you give that nice guy a chance.
#8. Women who date men who aren’t their usual type find there are far more good men out there to date than they ever imagined. It’s easy to get in a rut, dating the same guy over and over again, just with different clothes. You’re attracted to him not because he’s good for you but because he feels safe and comfy like that old pair of shoes you can’t seem to throw away.
#9. To be successful at dating over 50, you have to keep at it. A BIG mistake women make is giving up on dating after 5 dates with 5 not so great guys. Keep getting out there meeting those new and interesting men we talked about in #7. Try new dating sites. There are a lot of niche sites out there that cater to different interests you might have.
#10. The women who have the most fun dating and meeting Mr. Right got help when they needed it. They recognized they couldn’t do it all alone. Whether they read my blog, coached with me one-on-one or in a group, what made the difference is they took action to get the advice they needed, and then used what they learned in our time together to meet the right guy for them.
You don’t have to do this journey alone. Keep reading these blogs, come join our dating mentorship group by clicking right here (by the way, the opportunity to join will end this Sunday at midnight) or find out how to work with me one-on-one.
Until next time~
Believing in You!
P.S. Whenever you are ready, here are four ways I can help you find love after 50
#1: Get a copy of my book The Winning Dating Formula on Amazon
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#3: Work with me 1-on-1 or in my Group Program
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It will take time before women in their 50s find a new love.They get picky as time goes by.
Hi Henry…I feel both sexes get pickier. Why? Because they are afraid of failing again so they begin looking for perfection. Love that you comment. We always enjoy the male perspective here.
Being picky will also help you to stay safe. I mean that on a financial, emotional and physical level. The world feels differently now that it is post 9/11. Many of us haven't been out there looking since we were twenty or thirtysomething.